2007-09-06 02:37:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it does not make any difference...
this question remains valid until you marry... after marriage every one starts from square one...
2007-09-06 02:41:55 · answer #1 · answered by Harish Jharia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Arranged marriage seems to be more successful than love marriages. I think it's because in arrangements, when problems arise, the whole family is in ur corner. A fight is not just u and ur spouse, it's between families. Each family shares joys and sorrows of the couple equally. But in love marriages, families tend to stay out of it since most don't approve of this type of union. So the couple is left to their own devices when facing problems, and more often then not, in the heat of the moment ,or with no one to be logical and rational, the couple just decides splitting would be better than working things out, and trying to live harmoniously.
2007-09-06 11:25:55 · answer #2 · answered by Uncertain Soul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It makes little difference how you get married, its what you do with your life after marriage that determines whether the marriage is a success or a failure.
Its just that you have someone to support you when your marriage fails if it is a arrranged marriage and you can put part of the blame on someone elses shoulders and make them feel guilty, which will make them support you until you can stand on your own feet.
Marriage is about responsibility, if you cant handle being responsible your marriage will fail whether you were in love or not.
2007-09-06 10:52:29 · answer #3 · answered by Pramod R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't answer that. If you can't be bothered to type it out as a clear question then I would doubt you really care what the answer is.
Oh, heck, i'll have a go:
dno cuz marrige du2 fctrs bynd reesun.
2007-09-06 09:47:10 · answer #4 · answered by Paul M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on a lighter vein
they call one as suicide the other as murder .....what do u choose?
the question is framed wrongly
u must look at compatibility,
if u miss that even in luv marriage then u will v issues.
just test this way
canu 2 tolerate each others when u are at your worst , if answer is yes the go ahead
2007-09-06 17:15:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In both cases marriage just does not run on its own. Both parties have to work it out. The only difference is the approach in resolving issues that pop up every now and then.
2007-09-06 09:49:17 · answer #6 · answered by KAAL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For Indians:-
Love marriage which would become arrange like luv *** arrange.
Arrange marriage which can carry love later like happily married.
2007-09-06 20:26:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Success depends upon the partners and not upon the kind of marriage...
Take Care
2007-09-07 01:34:53 · answer #8 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear problem is with the word marriage doesn't matter if its love or arrange .mine is arranged and its been 10 years and the fun part about it that whenever we fight we just blame our parents that its their fault that we are together and problem is solved and fight is over
2007-09-07 12:50:32 · answer #9 · answered by indi32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
arrange marrige
2007-09-06 10:37:46 · answer #10 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope love marriage never success
& for some reason arrange marriage always succes
2007-09-06 10:06:28 · answer #11 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋