2007-09-06 02:49:27 · 3 answers · asked by Gracie H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well then heres my issue. my widowed huband and have been together for 24 years, I have two children 17,female and 21 male. we lived a very quiet life. his death at the age of 45 . was a huge loss to our familty and children,they want me keep the house. I own a house and need to sell it .but can't seem to be in side to do the work . Should i wait till I'm ready , or just get it overwith.? Ican't seem to function in the house i lived in for 13yrs. I want to sell it. I parially moved into my new husband house and I'm very comfortable there. I cry just thinking about it.(selling the house). my new husband's wfe died in the same week my husband did.so where at the same point in our grief 2gether. She was also 45 yrs old.what should i do?
2007-09-06 08:16:55 · update #1
I think you may have done the wrong thing. You will never know if you and your new hubby really love each other or if it was a rebound relationship.Yes you can be on the rebound even if you partner/spouse has died.
From your other question is appears your new Hubby was also widowed. So both of you are hurting and need help in getting over the grief. You both need grief counseling.
Be prepared to lose your new Husband once the grief is settled because I think you and him have joined each other way to soon.
If you need someone to talk to please feel free to email me.
2007-09-06 03:11:18 · answer #1 · answered by mikeae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like that you have to grieve then you shud have not jumped into the marriage...but now understand that you have already married...so it is not the time to repent over and brood on decisions...instead you need to get over...because there is someone else who wants to look out for you and you need to look out for him likewise....
I know it is easy for me to say because i am not the one grieving but what i am telling you is that...there is another person now already...so do not get him feeling all alone and lost because u r still living in your past, while he has made you his future...get over ...
2007-09-06 03:07:15 · answer #2 · answered by Rony Das 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's the prob? need more info?
2007-09-06 03:03:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋