I accidentally left my phone home but another man called me. My man saw this and know the other man. So he asked me why was this person calling me. AAAAAAHHHHHHHH I don't know what to say.
2007-09-06 02:40:11 · 27 answers · asked by chezeryl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Try telling the truth.
2007-09-06 02:44:08 · answer #1 · answered by pooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well cheryl i believe you need to make a choice within yourself, are you cheating on him? if you are youve been caught and now is the best time to fess up b/c the longer you lie and wait the least chance you have to rekindle the relationship!!! If ur not cheating than explain why he was really calling you! The truth is the only way to go on this, and if it breaks you up than so be it...If you are cheating with the other man than you should realize that you are not happy with your man now anyway so maybe seperation will be best for youz in the end!!!!! Good Luck!
2007-09-06 03:17:05 · answer #2 · answered by Life....it blows! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't know what to recommend considering me and my spouse don't get ourselves into these types of situations. Obviously, this man was calling for reasons you don't want your man to find out about, or ya wouldn't of posted this question. I don't even normally respond to questions where people "knowingly" and stupidly put their selves in a rut by doing things that they know will hurt another, whether it be now or futuristicly. I respond to those who seem to find their selves in a situation by accidental wrong decision making (with intentions of it being a good decision and in the end they need to learn from their mistakes.) Also, only to ones that truly need advice. In this case....you got alot to learn. "You made your own bed!" As far as I'm concerned, "You can lay in it, or make it yourself!" I think what you are doing is the lead cause to why disease spread is such a high rate these days...and to think "your man" is clueless and trusts his body and health with you. If I were him, I wouldn't be questioning the obvious, especially when it takes you days to answer, while you net search for a lie to give. Instead, he need to ask for the location of the nearest clinic to be thoroughly checked! Oh yeah, I bet while you took your time to post your question, just to add to the mind games you play with him...I'm sure he knows by now why the other man called you, cuz he probably already asked him, considering he knows him! Hmmm? Damn! Maybe instead of posting this idiotic question, you should have checked with the other man what his story was.....Dumb B*#^!s, I swear!
2007-09-06 07:20:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the truth.
If you are being unfaithful then confess up right away and face the music - you will have to in the end anyway.
If it's just innocent then telling the truth should be no worry.
I suspect you are being unfaithful and you want us to get you out of this - if this is the case then I hope you get found out and your man dumps you and finds a nice, decent woman instead of you.
2007-09-06 02:52:40 · answer #4 · answered by Paul M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The truth
2007-09-06 02:44:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheater
2007-09-06 03:06:34 · answer #6 · answered by sara76c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming you mean husband when you say your man?
If this man is calling you because you're having an affair, be honest with your husband & let him file for a divorce. You don't deserve him anyway.
2007-09-06 02:44:37 · answer #7 · answered by Jennield 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have nothing to hide, tell your husband to call him back himself and find out why he called. If you are having an affair, come clean. No one deserves to be lied to and put through that, and eventually, the truth WILL come out... it always does.
The truth shall set you free.
2007-09-06 02:48:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a Woman and tell him the truth! Why are you with him if you want to be with other people. I'll never understand cheaters. Kellylyn1113
2007-09-06 02:45:12 · answer #9 · answered by kellylyn1113 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean you don't know what to say? Are you cheating on your husband??
Well, how about come clean??
If you're into cheating, don't come and ask advice on how not to get caught, because people will more likely empaphyse with your husband and feel compassionate towards him, not you. Me included.
2007-09-06 02:44:32 · answer #10 · answered by Kc 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋