Why do some girls cry when they lose their virginity ?

Question

Even when they love you and you do it the right way.And how should a man react to this?

Answer 1

It might hurt. Or they could be overwhelmed by the emotional feelings they have for the guy.

I still cry sometimes when i make love with my husband, just because i feel so loved (emotionally) and I love him, and i feel so lucky to have him, and to be intimate with him.

Answer 2

I remember first time i masturbated i got so overwhelmed with this new feeling that i didnt know what the **** was going on so i started running around the house like crazy until the feeling ware off. Now when i turn back and start thinking about that day i would say that, the first time i experienced that feeling it was so new to my body i was afraid and excited it was good and bad at the same time, like a mix of all emotions and feeling at the same time, so overwhelming that i really didnt know what was happening to me at that moment. So taking it by analogy and taking in account that female body chemistry is much stronger and different than male one i would say it is just a reaction to that same feeling i had. Or on the other hand it might be some psychological reaction or a feeling of some twisted kind of violation or something similar (but i thing some girl/woman should talk about this anyway). And my last favorite point of view it could be some boring religious ****** up conflict in their head. This is my opinion im not an expert on this matter nor am i a doctor (but they might have better picture about this topic since they are learning human body). Hope this helps.

Answer 3

A man should just hold them. No matter what even if you are ready and it is the right way or whatever it is still a major deal for a woman to lose that. There is a lot of emotion that comes with it. She finally has found the one that she trusted enough to give it to, and at the same time she has just lost a part of her that she can never get back. It is a happy and sad thing at the same time.

Answer 4

...react to them with joy and respect and courtesy my friend...what else really? They've just experienced some really great stuff with you dude....and they will always cry tears of joy about you forever if you treated them mentally and physically well my friend during this virginal event. Surely you were a virgin once too reasonably. Don't you remember how you felt emotionally when that highly evolved first woman busted YOUR metaphorical cherry too? Get real my friend.....you've become "a saint" to this woman so to speak.....not a sinner!!! LOL!!!

Answer 5

Although there can be pain, tears are usually not about the pain. Tears are mainly because it's a special moment and, thus, they are tears of sorrow and regret if they're not married and they are tears of joy if they are married to a committed man.

Answer 6

We cry because it marks the end of being a child, the loss of the romantic purity ideal, and because it HURTS you clod!
Just cuddle and kiss quietly.

Answer 7

for a girl, there virginity is sacred (not like you guys, you want to get rid of it asap) and losing it may be stressful for them... of course, the girl is also guilty for doing it the first time and may also be worried of getting pregnant... having sex for the first time is such a stressful time for girls... and sometimes, one way of alleviating this anxiety is by crying... yes, you guys might not understand this... just be there for her.

Answer 8

The same reason football players cry at the SuperBowl... because they may not ever have that chance again... but in our case - we won't have that chance again.

Answer 9

because its whole new thing, they feel as if they are a mature person now and that they are have done something serious and they are not longer as innocent

Answer 10

nice hat dude!
why do some girls cry?
dude girls cry for everything.