Y do u think so also? I just want to know a guy's thought process vs a girl's. HEre's the situation. I was at my hubbys' aunt's place, and he called. We talked a bit and me spending the night came up and I said I didn't have any clothes. He was like, what do u mean u haVe no clothes? Then I clarified that I don't any clean clothes to wear the next day. It came across to me that with the initial comment, he thought i was standing there nude, that's why he asked the follow up question. This happened once before too, but i don't remember the situation. serious answers please. trying to figure out minds here. thanks.
2007-09-06 04:13:45 · 31 answers · asked by Uncertain Soul 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
See, when I told him i had no clothes to wear, I just meant no spares. That's not what he thought. This is y I just wondered male and female difference of opinion, or if it's just me. IF someone told me they had no clothes to wear, I'd juset figure, they had no spares.
2007-09-06 04:39:40 · update #1
I would assume you were in the nude as well...that's freakin wierd! I never thought about it!
2007-09-06 04:20:16 · answer #1 · answered by ccstangfan2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay lets take mens minds apart here, first what is it that men spend oh lets be nice 90% of there time on (single men) on the most part its sex, and how they are going to get some. Just being honest here. Men have been pre programed since childbirth pretty much to think of nothing but A. there penis, B. womens bodies and C. sex in one form or another. So, it is no great suprise that when you said " you had no clothes" a little light goes off in his mind she has no clothes she is nude. Women on the other hand, are different in how we think. Think about how we are. We have been taught that women are always shopping for shoes, clothes,and all that this entails. As women we never have enough clothes and if we dont see what we want to wear in our closedt first thing in our mind is " I dont have any clothes" and if that means the clothes I want is just dirty, or I need to go get that oufit I seen in the mall. Thats just how it is with men and women.
2007-09-13 19:18:56 · answer #2 · answered by wizrcam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem here is "communication skills".
' I HAVE NOTHIN' TO WEAR ',
Irrespective of A/S/L means what it says.
There is no difference in perception or comprehension.
Dearie, get your language skills evaluated. Stop blaming your hubby!
The poor guy must have drooled in anticipation of seeing U that way 'with nothin to wear'. All exited & hot.
Hey! What did U expect, a Western Union transfer of a Million Dollars?
Listen Babe, most men have a brain ( even though women would not like to believe so), so they think and react just as would a woman. Only that men tend to take on literal meanings, while women have greater/broader/fancier imagery.
But in this case, I realy think your hubby had a great 'imagination'. Greater than any woman can ever have (NO Gender BIAS here).
Keep Lovin that Hubby of yours, and kkeep on making such statements to him. It will keep the fire alive in your relationship. GOOD LUCK !
2007-09-13 22:08:04 · answer #3 · answered by Nielkrishna J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd suggest you get yourself to The Gap and very soon, because the clothes you have on just are not suitable for whatever occasion is stressing you out.
Haven't you heard the expression, "Oh, the winter ball is coming up and I haven't a thing to wear."
2007-09-06 04:24:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now considering how the conversation went "I THINK & or would say that; He was either being funny/cute !?! Or he may have had a mind - as if to say" I know you did'nt just tell me that you have no clothes.. He knew what you meant !I'm almost sure !! because one of his comments may have been I know you got clothes ! with as`Much money I spend to either get you some or to make sure you both have clothes!?!.. He was trying to be sarcastic I'll bet!! See Him knowning your location that you made said call from: He may have figured if his Aunt got wind of what had been said that she'd say "I KNOW YOU GOT SOME CLOTHES !! my nephew atleast mentioned that much to me !! " I PAID FOR SOME CLOTHES FOR MY/HIS WOMAN"<-- get it ? bet it was nothin !!
2007-09-14 03:00:48 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The phrase "No cloths to wear" strikes me in 2 ways - Poor and not affordable to buy cloths... The other way is that you want to attract your hubby for sex activities...
But reading the details fully, gives different meaning all together...
2007-09-07 05:14:57 · answer #6 · answered by vishnu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are more literal, to women it's all about the details. That's why only a woman can stare at a closet full of clothes and declare they have absolutely nothing to wear.
2007-09-13 20:04:07 · answer #7 · answered by Mystic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I know I'm a guy, but I think the guys interested in revealing clothing are the ones that are more...you know...curious, but others, like me, would say: dress how you wanna dress, or dress the way you think is good. I don't care if it reveals a little, you can if you want, but it is better to be modest than overboard.
2016-05-22 14:36:58 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK my little lost one,,,,#1---as I guy, I would have to lean toward the thoughts of insecurity,or just a simple unconscious fantasy that may have jumped out at him #2----- I do know my wife, and their would be no room for any-other reason other than she was unprepared
2007-09-06 15:35:04 · answer #9 · answered by knowitall 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would suggets these things:-
1) If u are rich go buy urself sme freaking clothes
2) If u are middle class again go buy urslef clothes or wear the ones u have
3) If u are poor then i guess u have to ask som eone to help u or u can find urself sme good cloth to make clothes and if no option is available please stay nude...take care...
2007-09-06 04:28:40 · answer #10 · answered by rakeshgee2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my initial thought in reading the Q was you didn't have enough money for a new wardrobe ...then as i read on was just that no spares...but with him i bet he picture you in a short mini skirt in a very tight shirt going commando all the way to his house...sec thought w/be who cares you won't be needing thoses spares....or you can wear one of my t-shirts...of course I'm not a man I'm just reading into the predictable side of it...
2007-09-14 03:34:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋