I asked a question earlier about getting back with my girlfriend of 16 months. She said she misses me an dstill has my picture up and cries to it everynight, but she also said she was hanging out with this guy that was her "friend" who just happens to like her from previous years. I already found this out, but I was going to ask how she felt about him??? Does it matter if I ask the question over the phone or face to face. which would be better, since she still is a little hurt by me? face to face or phone?????
2007-09-06 07:00:29 · 14 answers · asked by Still_going 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think face to face that way you can look at her reaction when she answers you. That you'll know if she's being honest when answering your question.
2007-09-06 07:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gads! Kind of seems to me like you've been there, done that... You don't even know if you want to show up for a face to face - which is the only way to do it! In your shoes I would be OK with leaving all that ambivalence behind. Strike out for new places where MAN has never been. There are so many other people out there who are just waiting to meet the new and improved version of who you are! Go for it!
2007-09-06 07:12:07 · answer #2 · answered by GENE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face to face is best as you can see the response and how she acts, Because on the phone you can`t see these things
If you think you may find it hard to accept her answer then do it over the phone rather than risk a violent situation.
2007-09-06 07:08:07 · answer #3 · answered by kevinmccleanblack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would go with ...............
face to face cause it would be better for u and her. plus u need to look at someone when u ask then out then u cant see if they are playing a joke or being serious. its happened to me before. do it in person not on the phone. it makes it less difficult
2007-09-06 07:07:34 · answer #4 · answered by amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually anything face to face is better. Girls like it much better since it is you having the courage to say something directly to her and it is much stronger said face to face then over anything else
2007-09-06 07:06:32 · answer #5 · answered by The K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do it over the phone, you can do it face to face as well, but if your scared of her reaction or what she might say it may be easier for you to ask her over the phone.
2007-09-06 07:05:59 · answer #6 · answered by Nita and Michael 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
braking off a long term relationship is VERY hard! on both ends.. what you should be thinking about is what made you both brake it off? and yeah it sounds like she loved you, but with this new guy who is just a "friend" could be something more, and who know's maybe she is truely ready to move on with her life and see what els this world has to offer.. if you choose to ask her that question you need to take that in to consideration. and that is something you need to ask face to face i myself have always been a face to face person. good luck to you on what ever it is your after.
2007-09-06 07:10:47 · answer #7 · answered by USELESS_WINGS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely face to face! Seeing someones expression and body language is priceless in deciding whats on their mind!
2007-09-06 07:06:14 · answer #8 · answered by debbiehelms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should tell her face to face because then you can actually show her how you feel and you'll also be able to sort it all out
2007-09-06 07:05:50 · answer #9 · answered by Noury 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go the extra mile, face to face, if she means a lot to you, I think you should go to her. good luck.
2007-09-06 07:06:54 · answer #10 · answered by brian j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋