Family & Relationships - 6 September 2007

I have a problem. My Nephew just turned two,but I've loved him since before he was born. at first his mother and father (which are my brother and sister in law ) didn't want him when they found out that they where pregnant they where going to abort him,but i talked them out of it. i went to every doctors appointment ,and named the baby. then i raised him until just recently a couple of days before his 2nd birthday they took him away from me because they where upset they saw a photo of us and said that "we look too much like a family" now I'm devastated but i can't do anything about it because they're his parents.but they don't know any thing about the baby,his favorite lullaby,his favorite toys,his favorite story nothing! and i don't have kids of my own ,but how can i stop my heart from feeling this way I feel like he's my baby am i wrong to feel this way?

2007-09-06 11:51:28 · 8 answers · asked by Stressed Out Good Guy Hubby 1 in Family

My cousin is getting married in 2 days and I am trying to find something for a present but they already live together so I'm sure they probably already have all the normal needed stuff any suggestions on what to get them?

2007-09-06 11:43:00 · 19 answers · asked by freckleface 4 in Weddings

It's a stupid question I know, but I'm curious and bored. So please enlighten me.

2007-09-06 11:42:45 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im being bullied on the bus by 2 guys that are african american.
i was just sitting down when it first happened. they said "hey gurl in the green shirt!" i turned around, they looked directly at me, and called me ugly. they made fun of me yesterday, called me bigbird and said i should use Pro Activ. i tried to kick him, but it didnt work out as he left.
then today, i sat a little more in front on the bus. i heard "hey, theres that gurl in the front." i stiffened throughout the whole ride. when it was finally one of the boys' stops, he went up front and touched me with his hand "which was supposed to look like a slap, except he used no strength.
i have no friends on this bus. i have ALOT of friends, and i've never experienced bullying before. what do i do?
my mom said something that affected me majorly. she said those boys were starting to control me. she said she would go to my school tomorrow. PLEASE HELP IF YOU HAVE ANYTHING TO SAY!

2007-09-06 11:42:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm having a hard time finding a song I can dance with my Grandpa at my wedding.. Since my father passed away 2 years ago my grandpa is doing on the things my father would of done.. And I just want to find that perfect song to let him know how much I love and appreciate him.. But all the songs are about Fathers and daughters.. So If anyone has any suggestions I'm open for them.. Thanks..

2007-09-06 11:36:09 · 9 answers · asked by Alicia Eve 2 in Weddings

I'VE BEEN GOING OUT WITH THIS BOY FOR OVER 2 YEARS SINCE I WAS 13 BUT NOW THAT I LIVE IN SIMSBURY AND HE LIVE IN HARTFORD I'M SCARED THAT HE MIGHT BE CHEATING ON ME SO I WANTED TO ASK MY COUSIN TO WATCH HIM BUT SHE STARTED TRYING TO GET WITH HIM!
WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2007-09-06 11:34:00 · 1 answers · asked by christina d 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-06 11:31:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

OK - I am an older person from a different generation.....This person and I like each other - lots of flirting, see each other alot at work - both always working (shift) Just getting to an interesting stage and he has now gone on holidays for 3 weeks (aargh) Do I get his ph nr from work (we all have sheets in our work areas with everyones nr on it) and msge him, or just ride it out?

2007-09-06 11:30:08 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This boy really likes me. And i like him, too. But i told him i don't want a boyfriend at the moment. But he doesn't know its because i really don't feel comfortable kissing because I haven't kissed anyone in a while. and just thinking about it makes me uncomfortable.

I really like him and I think I'm ready to make him my boyfriend. But how can i ease myself back into kissing someone.

2007-09-06 11:28:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been married to the love of my life for 3 years. And 3 months ago he had a love affair with another man. So I divorced him. But lately I can't seem to get over him.

So what can I do about it?

2007-09-06 11:28:28 · 13 answers · asked by Rainn 3 in Singles & Dating

well there is this boy i really like him and know he likes me and all my life i have been shy so what should i do.right now i only talk to him as friend and we flirt with each other.but i don't want to just tell him i like im and get my feelings hurt.cause he might like me as much as i like him.can someone give me some advice

2007-09-06 11:24:33 · 7 answers · asked by livelifelikealibra 3 in Singles & Dating

In third grade there was this new girl I use to be her friend, when we went on a field trip I bought her a braclet as like a friendship braclet kind of thing. But now ever since 4th or 5th grade she ignores me and she became "Popular", she talks to me very very rarely. She has popular friends and totaly forgot me. Now I'm in seventh grade and now it seems like she hates me and it makes me feel sad. What can I do to become friends with her again.

Thanks for who ever answered!

2007-09-06 11:22:07 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

when they come home angry and expect you to take care of them (emotional wise) what things do u say to a guy but not get on his nerves when he is upset?

2007-09-06 11:21:59 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I live in canada, and dont really want to drive to the states and it is not offered online... does anyone know if any stores in canada, specifically ontario around toronto carry david's bridal stuff??

2007-09-06 11:20:10 · 9 answers · asked by victoria s 1 in Weddings

ok this is a ongoing dilemma and you've all helped alot, last week my ex came over and in short told me how she is so happy in her new marriage of 5 weeks,but, her sex life sucks,then today she comes again uninvited and during our talk she was looking at me and i was dressed in a coffee stained shirt,dirty pants etc., i said yes i know im a mess and she said im looking at you not your clothes!.and why do you think this is so easy for me,this breakup....which is 4 years old!, ok i know she is still into me but i don't want that......i have a fiance..........how do i tell her no more..........nicely and what is her motive?

2007-09-06 11:16:35 · 27 answers · asked by pheggie101 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why?

2007-09-06 11:11:32 · 11 answers · asked by diana g 3 in Singles & Dating

Here's the problem;
There's 2 guys. The 1st guy, I like. ALOT. I've been friends with him for 2 years. But, I don't think he likes me back.
The 2nd guy is also my friend since 8th grade. I liked him in 8th grade, but since all we did was fight & insult each other, I never thought he liked me. But yesterday, 1 of his freinds told me he was crazy about me. How did I not see that. I haven't been able to ask his friend if he still likes me or not.
But what do I do? I like the 1st guy alot, but I also like the 2nd guy who I know has feelings for me. Maybe.
ug. High School sucks already. & I've only been in for.....4 weeks! Ug. I got along way ahead of me.

2007-09-06 11:00:05 · 16 answers · asked by Jenna L 2 in Singles & Dating

well my friend went out with a boy yesterday and she dumped him today. later on today he looks at me (i like him) i ask him if he could give me some candy and he did. so im wondering if he likes me and if he does (if) we go out would that be breaking girl code.

2007-09-06 10:59:37 · 29 answers · asked by !!!!Just_______!!!! 3 in Singles & Dating

Everyone has a different take on this kind of question. Interested in other peoples opinions and reasons. What do you think about this??

2007-09-06 10:57:09 · 5 answers · asked by Evie E 2 in Singles & Dating

This cable guy came to my home to connect my internet and he is a sweet and handsome guy.i must admit that i liked him from the moment i saw him.we talked to each other as if we knew each other for a long time.when he left he ask me for my number and from then we are now dating,i jus want to know if this guy could be the one and if he is very serious about us,he is also a loving and caring person.he calls me every day and tells me he misses me and i do feel the same way about him too.ive never had a long lasting relationship and i always think the same way about every guy i dated,all i want is this one guy whose in my life to proof to me that hes not like those other guys,that would be the happiest day of my entire life,i really want this to work for both of us and i have a feeling that he could be the one.could he be the one for me since he has all that qualities i always wanted in a man.

2007-09-06 10:56:11 · 9 answers · asked by bootylicious j 1 in Singles & Dating

plz help

2007-09-06 10:44:32 · 14 answers · asked by dwade24 2 in Singles & Dating

Me & my boyfriend have been together for 5 1/2 yrs now; & his sex drive is off the chain. I myself is not wanting sex as much as he wants it, but it is starting to bother me. I love him but he is wearing me down, why?
If any one have any reason or idea as to how i can talk 2 him with out him attacking me and making me feel bad for not giving him sex i would appreciate it.

2007-09-06 10:43:23 · 3 answers · asked by ms.tea_z_t 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hello. I wanted to ask you guys a silly question. I am in college rite now, and will b graduating soon. I was thinking of moving out of New York. I have been there all my life, and been through so much. I wanted to start frsh somewhere else. I am dying to go to California, and do plan on moving there; but my problem is that I want to move to or somewhere around Hunington Beach. I think it will be so fun and relaxing for me. Ok now here comes the stupid question, I am an African American; do you guys think it is good idea for me to move there? If not where in California is a good place for me to live that is safe, and have nice views with beaches. Thank you

2007-09-06 10:42:20 · 1 answers · asked by Bella Bella 1 in Singles & Dating

so I've started my second year of high school and I have no friends just like last year. Every weekend I stay home and it just really doesn't make me happy. I want to do SOMETHING! I don't know what to do, and trust me "being yourself" doesn't work in this school. so PLEASE HELP!!!!

2007-09-06 10:39:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I need help with choosing my wedding reception music!
We like mainly country music.

I need a good waltz for the Father of the Bride dance.
Butterfly kisses is over played, and I want a different song than the one at my sister's wedding. I was thinking of "I loved her first", and unless I find a better one this will be my choice.

I also need a good Mother/Groom song.

I was also going to have a dance for just the parents and grand parents of the bride and groom.... Do you know of any good songs for that?

Positive and constructive answers only please.

Thanks!

2007-09-06 10:38:25 · 4 answers · asked by Chocoholic 4 in Weddings

Is not making a phone call every now and then to let your girlfriend know where you are at and when you are coming home grounds for a break up? Or am I being to needy? Also, not doing romantic things? Or am I being to picky? He is everything I want and I love him to death, but I just don't wanna get hurt. I would like to know different opinions.

2007-09-06 10:31:22 · 12 answers · asked by greeneyes2kus 2 in Singles & Dating

well i am a guy and alot of people are saying that i am gay because i have more girlfriends than guy friends and i tell them well isnt this a good thing but still am i hanging out with the right people and if not what do i do

2007-09-06 10:28:23 · 10 answers · asked by bubanator316 1 in Singles & Dating

I just started college last saturday and met a very nice girl, we hit it off and hung out sunday, monday, tuesday, and last night, I asked her out. She said although she liked me, and this was very hard for her, she felt that since she just started college, she needed time to get her life in order before she could experience a relationship, "saying she could not give me all the attention that I need." We are still friendly and hung out today, but how do I go about as to be able to make her my girlfriend somewhere down the road? How do i make her regret that decision and want to come back to me?

2007-09-06 10:27:52 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-09-06 10:27:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-06 10:26:10 · 24 answers · asked by baahfordjour@verizon.net 1 in Marriage & Divorce