In third grade there was this new girl I use to be her friend, when we went on a field trip I bought her a braclet as like a friendship braclet kind of thing. But now ever since 4th or 5th grade she ignores me and she became "Popular", she talks to me very very rarely. She has popular friends and totaly forgot me. Now I'm in seventh grade and now it seems like she hates me and it makes me feel sad. What can I do to become friends with her again.
Thanks for who ever answered!
2007-09-06 11:22:07 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If she picks you over popularity, than she really isn't a friend worth having.
Join some clubs or sports activities, and almost immediately you will find some new, more worthwhile friends. :-)
2007-09-06 11:26:20 · answer #1 · answered by ChaiTea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on as this girl has. During your life you will have many friends. Some will be friends for life and will always be there even if you live in different countries and others are only in your life for a brief time. Everyone changes and this person obviously has and when that happens they move on. You may not be at that place or time yet or ready to be the other person has. You just need to see that this person has gotten from you what they needed and is now in a different place and being miss popular. Just try not to feel sad as everything in life changes.
2007-09-06 11:27:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I had a friend i use to hang with when i was that young. As time past, my circle of freinds grew and I did not want to hang with just one person anymore. I wanted many friends.
It was nto so much that i did not care about my one freind anymore, it was just that she just wanted it to be me and her all the time and would not accept the fact that I had made other freinds.
Wanted her to join in but she was shy I guess.
My recoomendation to you is this. Do not assume she does not want to hang with you anymore. She may be wondering why you stop hanging with her and do not want to be part of her circle.
Some time has past since you 2 was buddies. Perhaps you should try talking with her again. Start off with a smile and hello and then after a week or so, add onto the hi with casual conversation, then work your way up to going up to her around her friends and just act like you belong. Do not act like an outcast in the group or you will be treated.
But before you do this, make sure you still have the same things in common, do you dress the same as her and her new click, do you like the same things, etc. If not then it is not worth it and you have simply outgrown each other which will ahppne often in life that you will find that you meet people and then you simply outgrow them.
In this case then you have to accept this and make new friends.
2007-09-06 11:35:51 · answer #3 · answered by sadealz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know what my advice to you is forget her just move on with your life. Now that your friend has become popular she ignores you because your not cool enough. One day God forbid, she will need you and then she will remember that you was her best friend and you was the one there for her when no one else was. You know what she is probably acting like that because she don't want to be seen talking to you with her so call " Popular" friends. You know what you don't need her just find to friends. Don't make no one control you or make you feel down.
You are the captain so steer that ship.
2007-09-06 11:36:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why ? Find a new friend and move on. Stop carrying mental baggage. Your whey to young to worry about things that really don't matter.
Fact: UNDERSTAND THIS: All of the little school friends you now know will be gone and out of your life in less than 10 years. So it doesn't matter anyway ! Find and Forget !
2007-09-06 11:30:27 · answer #5 · answered by woodster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but I think you two have gone your separate ways... some times as peope grow up they also grow apart. If you don't think that this is the case then you should try to talk to her (alone and make sure you explain yourself in a way that is not insulting to her). But honey, if she's ignoring you then you have to understand that that isn't right. You don't deserve to be treated that way and I honestly think that unless she realizes what she is doing and makes an attempt to fix it, that you should let her go. But no matter what happens remember to be civil because you never know what's going to happen later on in life and you don't want to burn any bridges.
2007-09-06 11:28:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not the kind of person you want as a friend - if she truly valued your friendship, she wouldn't have ignored you like this. Spend time with friends who actually have respect for you and like you - it's far more important than being popular....
2007-09-06 11:26:31 · answer #7 · answered by Gem Gem 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont be friends with her! your obviously much better than that, she is ignoring you, youv been a good friend and made an effort, shell eventually realise that her "popular" friends arent as good a friend as you! shes not worth it if shes going to do that to you! just chill out and talk to nicer people nto always worrying about being popular! hope this helps =D
2007-09-06 11:27:47 · answer #8 · answered by Amarika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the seventh grade to. Maybe u shoud just not talk to her, but if u don't then thats ok. just start talking to her or ask her why she doesn't talk to u. Try bringing up the 3rd grade thing but just so u know, im not really good with friends.
2007-09-06 11:26:58 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The older you get, the more you see people's true colors.
Sometimes friends just separate.
Do not even try to pursue anything. 4,5,6, and 7 grade she is ignoring.
How long do you want to wait?
Move on.
You will soon graduate and make other friends.
2007-09-06 11:27:50 · answer #10 · answered by Camille 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋