TO break up or not?

Question

Is not making a phone call every now and then to let your girlfriend know where you are at and when you are coming home grounds for a break up? Or am I being to needy? Also, not doing romantic things? Or am I being to picky? He is everything I want and I love him to death, but I just don't wanna get hurt. I would like to know different opinions.

Answer 1

There are obviously more things going on then what you are leading on. I think that it is important to commuincate with your partner. But, I think you expect more than what this man can give you. You may be one of those people that want everything your way and only your way. You know a little SELFISH. The good news is you can work on those things and better yourself. A man should respect a women by giving a phone call yes. But, not all the time. If he is running late or you are suppose to meet up and he cant make then a call is needed for respect purposes. Relationships take alot of work. But at the end of the day you should know that the person you chose to spend your time with is honest, respectful, and truly cares for your well being. The best of friends. Good Luck to you. You know what you want and what you need to do to make it work. Just apply it and make it happen.

Answer 2

No it is not asking for a break up, I'd stay with him. You arent being needy this is one of those things that eveyonre sorta feels with a boyfriend. it's a big priority.. and if you take htis much time worrying i think you need to strengthen your relationship with this guy so you guys are on the same level that you two share something so special you trust each other and are completlely 101percent happy with each other.
just focus on asking more personal questions, and then have fun.
after the personal questions. a mix of everything makes everyone happpy!
try to have at least one deep conversation every other night..
depending on age.
if you don't that should be a goal.
nothing wrong with making goals in your relationship life.
You also aren't picky! Don't worry. You may not have found the perfect guy, but again just work on the relationship.
Romantic things wise.. He just may be shy maybe you have to make the first move so he see's how good it feels to be 'romantic'
tuh-rust me!

Work on building the relationship :]

GOOD LUCK!
and i really hope i helped!
if you have any more relationship problems i am more than happy to help! and i'm not trying to sound like a cliche.
=]
again good luck ♥

Answer 3

I think you should slow down and think about that a minute. See, most times guys just like their freedom, I mean you're not his mother right? So if he doesn't always say where he is going or call to say when he will be back, don't trip! No need to jump to conclusions, unless you have a damn good reason, then all bets are off! Don't look for trouble where there is none. As far as the romance goes, he's a guy, they don't always think to do certain things, so maybe you should try romancing him a little, ya know, it's okay. Don't lose your cool so easily, and you don't want to break up and then regret it, no one wants to be hurt, but let's not bring the hurt on ourselves. You love him to death then go with the flow, and when you feel like he is getting off track, well you go ahead and do what us girls do to get him back on track!

Answer 4

Some people (read: men) are not good at carrying on the day-to-day tactical moves of a relationship. Don't hold it against them.

Let him call you as much or as little as he feels the need to during the day. If he looks at it as 'reporting to mom' then don't expect him to call at all. It's okay.

As for romantic things and going on wonderful trips or excursions to great museums, etc. you should set these things up and talk about them enthusiastically. He will be happy to participate in the romantic event or go to the great place, and sooner or later (read: within 10 years) he will think of some romantic things himself and do them.

It's all in how we're reared. My dad wrote poetry for each of us (his six daughters) for our birthdays, gave each of us flowers at Valentine's Day and was just about the most romantic guy in the entire world. My mom was so lucky! My brother is the same way; he learned it from dear old dad.

Answer 5

don't do that let him have some space i think that 2 calls a da is more then enough why do u need to talk to him that much its sounds like u a being really needy just cool off a bit

Answer 6

He as well as you out of curtousy should let each other know what is going on time to time, If you think he is annoyed with you than back off a little and have him chase you a bit and see what happens with that , if nothing it will give you a clearer picture on his feelings toward you.

Answer 7

yea you are being needy...you cant expect to know where he is all the time...but yea a phone call now and again is alrite..if you love him its a stupid reason to break up with him over...and if you trust him you wont get hurt

Answer 8

this will lead up to even worse things, get out while you can, or you can just tell him you dont want to be questioned about what you are doing every ten seconds, tell him he aint your parents!!!

Answer 9

no it doesnt sound like you two should brake up but it does seem he dumped you ecuz you are to needy

Answer 10

will just tell her ur not ready for dating then just said I just want to be friend