so I've started my second year of high school and I have no friends just like last year. Every weekend I stay home and it just really doesn't make me happy. I want to do SOMETHING! I don't know what to do, and trust me "being yourself" doesn't work in this school. so PLEASE HELP!!!!
2007-09-06 10:39:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Join some of your school clubs or sports, that will keep you busy and you will also be around some of your classmates.
2007-09-06 10:52:37 · answer #1 · answered by Lulu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your friends have to go to your high school? If you want to do something, then go out and do something. Everyone who is doing something, had to start out not knowing how to do that thing. If it's a sport or something that you decide to do, just be prepared to stink at it for a year or so and stick to it.
Volunteer in your community. Is there something you like to do? Chances are there's a group in your area that does it. Join in and go to the activities and meetings.
Why are you staying home on the weekend? Go somewhere! You don't need to be with other people in order to be happy, just go out and find the things you like to do and then you'll meet people who like doing the same things you like to do too.
I always had the problem in high school that I'd finally find a friend, but then have to keep quiet about the things I liked or pretend that I was interested in something that I wasn't in order to keep that friendship going. It's much easier to just start a friendship with someone who already likes the things you do...perhaps that person does not exist at your high school.
2007-09-06 17:50:04 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. Brooke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join some clubs at school. If that doesnt work try some organizations not related to school. Then talk to the other people.
2007-09-06 17:45:49 · answer #3 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, just make new friends!!! You must have a lot of friends, you can always get new ones, but keep the old ones. get their phone numbers and call them over the weekend and hook up wit them!! then with ur new friends, invite them all over for a party or something, just dont be shy! i mean ur a softmore! get past those naughts and butterflies and suck it up man, go socialize and have fun, once youve broken outta ur comfort zone and have new friends, nows when u be urself, around ur buds :D
2007-09-06 17:45:39 · answer #4 · answered by suzanne kane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join a club at school or if u like sports join a sports team in school start a conversation with somebody and don't be shy. if you have a good personality i am sure you will find a friend
good luck!
2007-09-06 17:46:24 · answer #5 · answered by colrz123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try joining a club or afterschool activity to meet people. Is there a YMCA in your town? You can also look into Big Brothers & Big Sisters for your area.
2007-09-06 17:44:50 · answer #6 · answered by nova_queen_28 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well make friends. i dont have any friends either. use to then i got married and wrapped up in my man and stopped hanging out wth my friends, and now i study for my GED in November, and i just live like a married woman. now i have to say i am very happy wit my life but i miss my friends. i really hope you find you some good friends, there really important in HS
2007-09-06 17:48:51 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. Nolan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to people and be friendly and nice to them talk to them
2007-09-06 17:46:36 · answer #8 · answered by lucky_blueangel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋