when they come home angry and expect you to take care of them (emotional wise) what things do u say to a guy but not get on his nerves when he is upset?
2007-09-06 11:21:59 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
just give him his space.... if he wants to talk just listen.. he'll calm down on his own..
2007-09-06 11:28:27 · answer #1 · answered by ☠Naz☠ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The number one thing is that if he comes home angry, more than likely, it's not you so don't take it personally. He probably just needs a little time to wind down from a hard day. I suggest welcoming with a hug and a kiss and then giving him some space. Maybe that would be a good time to start dinner or deal with the kids (if you have any). I know it sounds a little "Leave it to Beaver," but just allowing him room to breathe will make all the difference. Then at dinner, you can talk to him about his day and just let him vent. He'll know that you love and support him and also respect his need for space. Hope this helps.
2007-09-06 12:08:49 · answer #2 · answered by stax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You test to see if he wants to talk. You do not disagree, or suggest stuff. Try and empathize, if you can. If you can't, say nothing.
You can say that you are sorry that he had a rough day, and then just listen. DO NOT TRY to analyze his responses unless he asks ( really, seriously, asks; not rhetorically asking) for an opinion. Mostly, he just needs to vent.
Some venting is healthy. But it can get out of control if he has rage issues that are not treated.
2007-09-06 11:28:34 · answer #3 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man are guys confusing because most of the time you try to talk to them about it and they get super defensive and even more upset. Try not talking, just being around him and hugging him and just saying, i understand that you are very angry right now i'd love to talk this over with you but i want you to be ready to talk about it. Until then i'd just love to be with you. Men tend to just need someone around them. Give that one a try. and good luck.
2007-09-06 11:29:24 · answer #4 · answered by roxygurl1307 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men like to be listened to. Also, dont pry. letting them be works well too. If they want emotional support, they usually mean they need to be mothered. Make him some soup or dinner. Maybe lay out his pajammas or put on his favorite movie for him.
good luck. They are just like children. BUT... dont talk to him like one. :)
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2016-12-16 13:19:42 · answer #6 · answered by kobayashi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hates his job, encourage him to find another job. Otherwise, I would just kind of stay out of his way. Fix dinner, eat, and go to another room. If he asks, tell him you would love to spend time with him but he seems to always be angry.
2007-09-06 15:37:31 · answer #7 · answered by Julie H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After a hug....give him some beer and some head. Thats all a guy needs
2007-09-06 11:27:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...u can just ignore him, like my wife does, and then he can just deal with things on his own like i have to do. or u can ask him to tell u what's wrong and then just listen. and if u think he wants ur advice then give it to him. but the biggest thing is just listen. i mean isn't that what u want when u have a problem??
2007-09-06 11:28:27 · answer #9 · answered by john m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just get on with my own things and act completely normal. I will listen if he wants to talk but I won't pander.
2007-09-06 11:27:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say nothing to him if you not the cause. he should leave his problem with who cause them. but don't feed his anger, just ride it out or tell him to take care of him self while you go out some where until he chill out some, or if he you man ask him do you want sex? that aways work for me
2007-09-06 11:32:27 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋