I've been married to the love of my life for 3 years. And 3 months ago he had a love affair with another man. So I divorced him. But lately I can't seem to get over him.
So what can I do about it?
2007-09-06 11:28:28 · 13 answers · asked by Rainn 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all you need to do right now is focus on you. move on you can find someone who loves you unconditionally. if you feel divorcing him was the right choice cheer up. life is to short to be depressed.
2007-09-06 11:35:50 · answer #1 · answered by MsJ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Glad to meet you, depressed. I'm lonely.
You're saying, your husband is gay? Get a divorce, right away! You can eventually get over him, just read, socialize, flrit and think about someone you haven't met, yet. Move to California, too. You married the wrong man 3 years ago, I went through a wrongful breakup, 3 years ago. Coincidence?
Maybe. But who really knows?
2007-09-06 18:37:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about that. If I were you, id plan a day out with the girls and go get a whole new look (get your hair done, go shopping) just stuff that all girls like. It will make you feel like a new person with a clean slate. then start dating other guys and eventually youll find one that makes you feel even better than you had with your previous guy. It definently is hard to get over someone youve been with for so long..but youll be alright..good luck!
2007-09-06 18:37:28 · answer #3 · answered by Kristina M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He had an affair with a MAN!? Have you had yourself tested for HIV yet? Being betrayed by a spouse these days can be DEADLY. How many men has he been with? For how long? He has put you at risk of death, just to please his sexual appetite and he didn't even have the decency to tell you. Get tested and get over him quick.
2007-09-06 18:39:13 · answer #4 · answered by YahooGuru2u 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know how you still feel about him. I been with this boy off and on for three years and when you love someone its like you will never wanna loose him. Tell him you still love him that is if you still do. Love just don't come and go to me it last forever!
2007-09-06 18:36:46 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep yourself busy with your life so as not to think about him so much. In time he will fade into your past and you can spend your time looking for a guy who will want to be with you and only you.
2007-09-06 18:34:12 · answer #6 · answered by mopjky 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Goodness, get tough and forget this man. Get to a psychiatrist and let her give you something to calm you down so you can think straight/logical and get rid of this loser.
You're too good for this treatment.
2007-09-06 18:33:34 · answer #7 · answered by Ida T 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find some friend and go on vacation, you need time to get over him, time meaning not spend alone thinking and crying, but with people laughing and enjoying
2007-09-06 18:33:42 · answer #8 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
go out with other guys and find the one whos right for you and will love you like you love him. =) best of luck
2007-09-06 18:33:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
DAME give it time sorry to hear that but DONT GO BACK WITH HIM!
2007-09-06 18:33:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋