well i am a guy and alot of people are saying that i am gay because i have more girlfriends than guy friends and i tell them well isnt this a good thing but still am i hanging out with the right people and if not what do i do
2007-09-06 10:28:23 · 10 answers · asked by bubanator316 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From a woman point of view more male friends and way,way lesser women friends us girls we have to watch our guy
2007-09-06 10:36:05 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At first glance, my answer would be guy friends because you're a guy. Unless you're looking to get married in the near future, it's kind of a waste of time and money to spend all your efforts in girl land. But upon reading the rest of your post, I felt impressed to share my husband's story with you.
My husband, who is decidedly not homosexual, had this "problem" in high school himself. He was committed to living the standards of his religious lifestyle and none of the guys he knew at his high school thought those standards were important and ridiculed him for them. He found that only girls shared his same convictions, so he hung out with mostly girls. You tend to become like the people you hang out with, so he stuck with people who shared his same goals and lifestyle. That didn't make him gay, it made him stronger in his resolve to be a good person.
You are in charge of your life and how it turns out. Your choice in friends has a lot to do with that. If other people get down on you for that, then you just know that you don't want to be friends with anyone who mocks the things that are important to you.
2007-09-06 10:43:49 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. Brooke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just hang out with whoever you like, get on more with and feel more relaxed around. Whether be male or female. You know your own sexuality and what anyone else says shouldn't be an issue. I wouldn't be too bothered about what some idiots thought.
2007-09-06 10:33:55 · answer #3 · answered by GBMC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore them they are just haters but maybe get a couple of more guy friends to even to odds a bit but girls are better to hang out wit anyway
2007-09-06 10:34:12 · answer #4 · answered by Besos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to ignore those who would set themselves up to judge or analyze your friendships. You don't need that.
Find the best people that you want to emulate, or who give you positive energy, and relate to them as your friends.
Good luck!
2007-09-06 10:34:08 · answer #5 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By u asking this question makes you 100% GAY!!!
2007-09-06 10:33:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
dont listen to them, you know you're not gay, you like girls and not guys... so it's not a big deal, dont let them intimidate you...
it's you life it's your choice...
2007-09-06 10:35:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get more gay friends, that way no one will question you any more.
2007-09-06 10:33:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
more guy friends
2007-09-06 10:33:53 · answer #9 · answered by Crystal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself man, who cares what other people think
2007-09-06 10:35:56 · answer #10 · answered by David 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋