bullying! help?

Question

im being bullied on the bus by 2 guys that are african american.
i was just sitting down when it first happened. they said "hey gurl in the green shirt!" i turned around, they looked directly at me, and called me ugly. they made fun of me yesterday, called me bigbird and said i should use Pro Activ. i tried to kick him, but it didnt work out as he left.
then today, i sat a little more in front on the bus. i heard "hey, theres that gurl in the front." i stiffened throughout the whole ride. when it was finally one of the boys' stops, he went up front and touched me with his hand "which was supposed to look like a slap, except he used no strength.
i have no friends on this bus. i have ALOT of friends, and i've never experienced bullying before. what do i do?
my mom said something that affected me majorly. she said those boys were starting to control me. she said she would go to my school tomorrow. PLEASE HELP IF YOU HAVE ANYTHING TO SAY!

everyone else on the back of the bus laughs.
its humiliating

Answer 1

bullying changes peoples' lives forever. The experiences that you have make up who you are. You have to report them. They can get a fine or in even more trouble. Never let anyone get away with making you feel smaller or less important. Maybe try just ignoring them but i have tried that with people and they think that nothing can hurt you so they get meaner and meaner. I'd say go straight to the principle or bus driver

Answer 2

ok what you need to do is tell the bus driver exactly what happened and im sure he will have him off the bus and never be able to get back on or you can do it this way beat the hell out of him off school grounds and show him your not gonna put up with it but I take it your not like that just tell the bus driver I promise you if you do this these boys will not leave you alone unless you do something dont let them control you good luck and I hope you do what im telling you other wise they will pick on you then more people will pick on you im trying to scare you but if you dont do something someone else will pick on you and instead of using words they can really hurt you especailly if they are older than you
you need to tell the bus driver I would say that he made it look like he was going to hit you and you thought he was going to so your scared to go to school ok your not lying your just helping your self I hope you do the right thing just tell the bus driver dont be shy or get scared good luck if you cant do then get your mom or dad too I know they will take care of it good luck

Answer 3

Just turn around next time they do it and say "quit flirting with me". Seriously, it works most of the times. Boys who act like that tend to hate it when girls think they're being flirted with. Everything they say, just blush and say "stop flirting". They'll probably stop, and if that doesn't work, just ignore them. Sit right behind the bus driver-they wouldn't want someone in authority to witness this!

Good luck. I was tormented on the bus last year so much that I finally started purposefully missing it so my mom would take me. (I was tormented in a similar way, too)

Answer 4

I had that experience in 4th grade lol... quite a long time ago.
I just turned into ***** around them. Trust me.. on the bus they won't do anything to you, because A.. the bus driver and B...you're a girl Next time they say something just act like a total hardcore *****. Turn around and ask him "WTF his problem is" Tell him.. proactive my ***.. have you ever heard of deodorant? My family always told me to ignore him and to tell a teacher or whatever but it didn't work. So once I started embarassing them more than they embarassed me.. they got the hint and even actually started being nice to me. I was the only white girl amongst 6 black guys in the back of the bus lol

Answer 5

They respond because you react.

You reacted when you tried to kick them and lord knows what else you may have done to get a jolt out of them.

The best way to deal with bullies is to ignore them.

Act like you do not hear them.

Never show anger, sadness, or anything like that, if anything smile when you see them.

Do not respond to them at all.

I am surprised to hear that boys are picking on gurls, that is so pathetic. Perhaps they are gay or wimps to pick on other guys.

Answer 6

OK hunni that happened to me tell them to shut up and if they go like no or oo just be like act your age not your shoesize and are you so bored with you life you have to bully people
if that dosent work personally id punch them but i dont wantt to get you in trouble so dont!
Its awesome that you told someone!

Answer 7

If these boys are from your school then your mom must most definitely go & see the school authorities about this immediately. I guess its just started this bullying, right? Nip it in the bud right now!

Answer 8

Everybody experiences bullying in their life, it's normal, just confront those stupid kids and ask them why they bully you so much, if not, go to the principal or bus driver and tell them your situation. Good luck!

Answer 9

yes ! you should step up . you are not suppose to be bullied . stand them up && tell them to bakk off ! but never take their words effensively . egnore those mean comments . stand tall && challenge them . those guys are controling you . but it`ll be worser if your mother handles it . handle it yourself . && make friends at the bus . then you won`t be alone . && if you have lots of friends . don`t you tell em` to help you ?

Answer 10

Talk to a guidance counsel or a parent or teacher. Good Luck!