I was going to send my husband a vase of roses with baby breath hoping he will forgive me. He's mad because I went to dinner with another man when he was out of town but it's been 3 long days since he's come back and he still won't talk to me. It's driving me nuts! I was hoping he would be over it by now. Usually when we have a fight we usually kiss and make up in like a hour. I tried putting lingerie to seduce him but he just looked at me and walked away! I was hoping maybe giving him rosese will help so do they have the same effect on women as they do on men?
2007-09-06 13:56:06 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
who was this man? are you cheating or was it business? are you involved with this man? why did he find out about it? if it was innocent why is he upset? write down the answers to these questions and give it to him. you dont need to give him flowers, men hate!!! that, you need to give him the truth, either he is overreacting to an innocent dinner you had, or, you are bad news and no amount of flowers is gonna cover that up. cause your relationship may be dead and gone.
2007-09-06 15:49:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Roses wont do anything. I don't know the whole situation, but I would be angry also if I was out of town, and you went out to dinner with another guy. I know what your thinking, that it wasn't a big deal, but guy's know guy's, and he is just looking out for you in his own way, he obviously loves you or he wouldn't care. I would suggest you just talk with him about it, re assure him that he is the one for you, tell him you didn't know that would upset him or you would not have done it. Ask him what you could do to make it up to him. If you let him know that he is the one you always think about then you'll be fine. If you must buy him something, buy him something for his, truck or car, or a watch, give him a poker night with the guys, or something along that, no flowers though, a card is fine. unless the flower pedals are on the bed, they are a no go/ good luck
2007-09-06 14:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by Koolaid1730 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you send roses before having resolved the problem he will see it as a pathetic way of trying to buy your way into his good books and just make him angry.
Question is why you went out with another man then expected your husband not be upset.
I notice you said "Usually when we have a fight..." Have you done things like this often? Do you realise why what you did was wrong?
If you believe your behaviour was acceptable then you should not be married at all as you have no idea what the union is.
2007-09-06 14:12:39 · answer #3 · answered by Forgotten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like more than roses are in order here missy, I think you need to explain to your husband so he believes you why you would violate his trust in you the way you did. You know marriage is serious, not just a game that's played, you have to live it. Personally I would kick you to the curb because if you'd have dinner with another man, what else are you prepared to do? I'm sure this has crossed his mind so good luck.
2007-09-06 14:03:31 · answer #4 · answered by IRONFIST-X2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i've got given my Husband crimson romantic roses as quickly as. I shocked him at artwork for the time of lunchtime and gave him the roses. the 1st impact I have been given from him replaced into this awkward seem on his face like, "What the heck am I going to do with this?" form of seem. it is no longer that he did no longer delight in my gesture, to him the assumption of receiving roses looks gay to him. i've got additionally had a communication with a buddy approximately it, he's gained roses earlier from his spouse and to him he felt that's gay besides. How can adult men categorize roses for being gay? that's a flower it has no gender.
2016-10-10 02:33:20 · answer #5 · answered by nelson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this particular case I don't think sexy lingerie or roses will do the trick. You need to sit down and talk out the situation with him. Let him know why you went to dinner with the other guy, and (hopefully) that you did not have any intentions of being with him. Talk it out!!!
2007-09-06 14:01:45 · answer #6 · answered by Stefanie K 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't think roses will help what you did. What if a man you were crazy about went to dinner with another woman just because you were gone
2007-09-06 14:07:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Meet him in just underpants and a Tshirt. Tell him you are very very sorry. You want to talk to him about what you did. And if, after you talk, he is still so mad at you, then he can spank you. Tell him that maybe you deserved to be spanked and he can do it but only after the talk. I don't think he could pass up the opportunity to spank your buns. At least it would show him you are serious about wanting to apologize and explain. If he still refuses, offer him a hair brush or ping pong paddle to show that you are really really serious. And BTW being spanked can be fun.
2007-09-06 14:44:48 · answer #8 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what do you expect, you went to dinner with another man, you crossed a relationship no no. hes hurt , how would you feel if he went out to dinner with another woman, would you just get over it. now that you have done that, now he will always question weather he can trust you. good luck to you i hope you guys work it out, but you are the one that messed up, and you are going to have to work to prove to him you are sorry and regret it. he will forgive you in time if he loves you and you prove to him that you are not interested in another man.
2007-09-06 14:07:25 · answer #9 · answered by yowuzup 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to lay off for now and give him the time and space to come to terms with something that clearly hurt him very much. Sometimes there are consequences that aren't just going to go away because you want them to.
Hopefully he'll come around.
2007-09-06 14:15:16 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. Goddess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋