My boyfriend broke up with me and i want him back.?

Question

We are both in college. I still love him and he says he is still attracted to me, but he just cannot be in a relationship right now. He claims his feelings for me have changed. Its been a couple of weeks and I am trying to show him that we are good together. He still calls and wants to hang out with me. He kisses my forehead and has physical contact (ex: arm around me, playful pushing) and sometimes i catch him just looking at me. I want him back. I know that their is no other girl in his life. I love him. I would do anything for him and that is why I am giving him the space he asked for-but what am i supposed to do? I can't wait forever, but I want to. I want him. Please...someone help me. Tommorrow is friday and we are spending the evening together and we are saturday-at his suggestion. He says that maybe someday he will want to date me again, but he cant right now. What am i supposed to do? I want him. Please be nice to me-I know i sound pathetic, but im hurt. Thanks

Answer 1

It sounds like there is something going on in his head right now. Obviously he still likes you a lot, but something has made him decide that he should stop dating you. Maybe he thought you was getting too serious and he isn't ready to make a "big" commitment yet.

I know it is hard to "wait" for him to make up his mind, but if you really love him give the time and space that he needs. He is either going to find someone else or realize that it is you that he wants to commit to. Pick a date about four more weeks away and circle it on your calendar; that's the date he has to decide by. On that date, you move on with your life. Just knowing that there is a "definite" end to the problem will make it a lot more "livable".

Answer 2

Well he is playful with you and talks to you all the time, and you are going to hang out with him on Friday and Saturday. That sounds like a date to me. He is playing a game, and seeing how long you will hang on for him. Don't wait for him to long, or you will be by yourself. Give him his space, but go about living your life. You might find someone that will treat you better than he does. Stand back and look at the whole picture, then see if this is the kind of life you want. You are still in school, and have time before your out, and then real life starts.

Answer 3

if you think that's there no one else than most of the time it is around that time they get confused than they need space and is not sure of what they want. I think that you need to be strong and stop being needy an man don't need a needy women if space is what he say he need then you should give it to him. You don't need to allow him to have physical contact with you and you really don't need to allow him to see you and if he's than man for you, that will be a lesson well taught because than he will see what he had and next time he wont let him go

Answer 4

Two week is too soon. He does like you. But you should stop seeing him and give him the space he asked for. Talk to him and give him 3-6 months to come back. Meanwhile, keep yourself busy. Find a hobby, education, volunteer, meet other people. Remember, if that butterfly that left comes back it meant to be for your........ good luck.

Answer 5

i know it hurts but give it time and play hard to get. i mean act like you don't really care but not mean just go out with friends and show him you still do things even though hes not with you. but be nice about it. good luck.

Answer 6

I say just get over him....move one. There are other guys out there. I'm sure you'll find better hotter.

Answer 7

Move on. Get away from this game-player.