Family & Relationships - 6 September 2007

2007-09-06 21:09:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why would a guy ask "Does Emily like me?" but tell Emily he didn't say it...ppl were lyin' on him!!!!
Then when Emily went back where she heard it...the person she was talking to decided to face the guy down. Then he said I don't remember saying it. Maybe I did.

What does it sound like to you?

Why would he ask if Emily liked him?
Why would he "forget" he said it?
Why would he lie?
Do you think he likes Emily or hopes she doesn't like him?

2007-09-06 21:08:15 · 7 answers · asked by §♫♪‹(•¿•)›☼»-(¯`v´¯)-»\\ 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-06 21:06:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been single for almost a year and I am interested in dating again. Problem is no one has approached me yet. I feel I am nice looking and have alot going for myself however no one has approached me. What is it about me that does not attract men to me ? I am too shy or scared of being used if I approach a man. What's the problem?

2007-09-06 21:06:22 · 14 answers · asked by nene 3 in Singles & Dating

I was with this girl for a month a while ago. Everything was fine until she suddenly broke off all contact. I called her once after and she never answered. I msg her facebook a few days later and she never replied. I had no idea what happen until I asked around and found out that her ex came back and said all this "i'm sorry" BS and she got back with her ex (I mean wtf she didn't even properly break up w/ me).

So it's been 2 months since we broke contact, and I've just been working a lot to cope with it all. I finally got over her a month ago, and I see her online today. I sent her an IM just saying "hey, how's everything going?" And she never answered. She signed off ~5 min after I said hi.

Is she pissed off? I dont even know what I did wrong! I dont care anymore if she doesn't want a relationship w/ me. I just thought Id be nice and say a friendly hello and she doesnt even respond. Is that normal behavior or is she being really rude? Should I just forget her?

2007-09-06 21:03:17 · 20 answers · asked by Stan 3 in Singles & Dating

In some situations how we will adopt this willpower

2007-09-06 20:35:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We will be heading to my husband's grandmother hometown.As usual that would mean, me putting up with the dogs. Not that I hate dogs but I dislike how their house smell of dog's saliva. They have 3 by the way and in addition , I have a baby that started to crawl. Will they be upset if I explain that I almost throw up because of the smell or do I just use my baby as an excuse?

2007-09-06 20:12:14 · 12 answers · asked by Any 1 in Family

We wanted different things. He wants to party all the time, I'm ready for some stability. There's no hard feelings, but still I get so sad sometimes that 4 years of my life was spent in a relationship that ended up going nowhere.

How can I get over it?

2007-09-06 20:12:12 · 10 answers · asked by Judy 5 in Singles & Dating

goes to the weddings alone.... i think he's expecting me shell out the extra $50... he invited me to a couple wddings this year.. one of the couple he doesnt' even know that well... i do'nt want to sound cheap... but $50 a pop is a lot to give at a wedding to ppl i don't even know...how do i handle this? or how doi bring it up tactfully?

2007-09-06 20:08:59 · 27 answers · asked by bigmak1125 2 in Weddings

she lives with her mother (in a million dollar house), is married with a kid -- just had a 30 thousand dollar wedding, doesn't work, is almost thirty, and collects foodstamps & medicaid! she annoys the he** outta me! what should i do. she is at every family get together & i want to be peaceful. we had a falling out right before her wedding when she turned into a monster telling me how ungrateful my husband is and how much she's done for "us people". (my hubby makes $50 grand/ year-- not a lot, but we sure don't rely on any handouts from this whiner!)
how should i behave around her? i've been avoiding her for months, and i don't see an apology from her every coming my way. my husband says i need to forget it and just treat her with love. uuugh! what should i do?

2007-09-06 20:07:47 · 9 answers · asked by not an angrygrrrl 1 in Family

2007-09-06 20:06:52 · 4 answers · asked by Julia's Mommy xoxo 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-06 20:06:40 · 7 answers · asked by gracey k 1 in Singles & Dating

if you had a choice to swim with sharks in an aquarium and feed the fish or sit, pat and feed a cheetah what would you enjoy most....

Im having problems in deciding what to buy, or suggest something you have done or received for your 21st in the past that blew you away...

2007-09-06 20:03:18 · 5 answers · asked by Georgie111 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

While watching tv at my girlfriend's house, she suddenly turned to me and told me that I could change the channel at any time if I wanted to. I presumed that this meant she would be willing to watch whatever I wanted to. Then she said to me, "Nothing gay, please." When I finally did find something I liked, she looked at me disapprovingly and said, "I thought I said nothing gay. This is kinda gay." So I handed her back the remote. She quickly switched to another random channel. This, by the way has happened before. My girlfriend refers to certain thing's that I like as gay or lame, or a waste of time. If she loves me like she claims she does, should she say thing's like this, or am I overreacting? I feel that even if she doesn't like some of the thing's that I do, she could at least show respect for the fact that those thing's are important to me.

2007-09-06 20:00:33 · 12 answers · asked by Treblacram 2 in Singles & Dating

Statements like "love me and I'll leave you" or "don't fall in love with me - you will scare me off" imply that merely the expression of love implies a level of committment that is binding. Why should it be that we can not express love easily in a romantic relationship without giving the idea that we want our beloved to do more or be more in the relationship?

2007-09-06 19:57:42 · 4 answers · asked by carole 7 in Singles & Dating

what could happen to him? could he be kicked out? & what happens to the benefits as far as medical and what not??

2007-09-06 19:55:57 · 7 answers · asked by weetee_25 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I do expect you to behave like you are gentlemen.

Would you ask...Does (girl in question) have a crush on me?...to a mutual friend?

Or does asking the mutual friend mean he has interest in (girl in question)?

2007-09-06 19:54:35 · 15 answers · asked by §♫♪‹(•¿•)›☼»-(¯`v´¯)-»\\ 6 in Singles & Dating

what do you guys really love in a girl and attracts you the most?

2007-09-06 19:50:03 · 14 answers · asked by ;) 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my girlfriend have been together for a year and a month now...and it seems we are changing..I am 18 and she is 19, we are both young and surely fine tuning, deciding who we are, and what we want to do for life. It seems as though the more time that passes the less in common we have with eachother. Things like she is perticularly shallow and thinks that the outside beauty is more important than inside beauty. I dissagree and have no problem with her feeling that way but I dont want to live with it and would like to move on. I have a more possitive out look on this were as she doesnt. She tends to be a very impulsivly angry person, and I dont know how to let her down easy ( I owe her a laptop due to a mother's day house cleaning accedent to boot...)......even though she was told not to leave it out... I still love her but love by very far has been the easiest part of this relationship and I fear it will get worn thin. given every detail what would be the best idea for me to do?

2007-09-06 19:49:32 · 7 answers · asked by inzpecter_gadget 1 in Singles & Dating

Besides the whole "if you ask the question it's time thing". I really want to know.

2007-09-06 19:49:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-06 19:48:15 · 14 answers · asked by Sexy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am not kidding.

2007-09-06 19:44:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So a bunch of people were talking at the end of practice and I, not a part of the conversation, am quietly making weird noises by myself. (It's something I do, don't worry about it.) Anyway, this one guy I've known for awhile asks me, "Oh, do you like the sound of your own voice," interrupting both me, the conversation, and was being rude to boot. I couldn't think of any good comebacks. Can anyone think of any? BTW, the guy is sensitive about his height if that helps at all. (Napoleonic complex, you all know the type.)

2007-09-06 19:44:16 · 7 answers · asked by figrock_the_clock 1 in Friends

there is growling in the corner area in my bedroom it doesnt happen all the time yet when it does it is at night and I have hit the wall and it continues I went outside and there are no holes in the roof or at the bottom i mean it has gotten to the point i will not sleep in there...i dont know what it is and why it is in my wall

2007-09-06 19:40:58 · 15 answers · asked by Headie Who 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My guy is telling me not to dress up so much because he likes me the way I am and doesn't like it when people stare. I on the other hand like to dress up and I think he should be happy about it that people take time to look and think what a "lucky" guy he is but he doesn't appreciate it. I don't wear anything revealing so I don't know why he cares so much. Besides, I don't dress up so people can look at me, I dress up because I like to feel good about myself. So guys, how do you feel about your girl? Don't you want them to dress up and look nice or are you one of those who feels the same way. Just wondering...

2007-09-06 19:36:23 · 1 answers · asked by Loving.You 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Writing about 6 yr old son whose father I never told about the pregancy and birth because of his alcohol abuse and I am experiencing from my son a lot of interest and sadness because of the absence of that relationship. I cannot change my decision but I do not know how it is something I can make him understand and not suffer from. I am a successful partner in a law firm and I am able to provide for him without any assistance and he leads a full life.

2007-09-06 19:34:37 · 21 answers · asked by tcw 1 in Family

Okay, so my boyfriend is in the army, he has been gone for just about two months. I love him with all m heart, we have been together for almost one year and nine months on the 12th. I told him, before he left, that I would wait for him to be done with the army. I am willing to out my heart on the line and wait for him knowing that it might not work out in the end, and that I could get really hurt. BUT because I love him that much, I am willing to do it. I just got a letter from him today saying that he doesn't know if he is holding on to nothing. I just started college and he is worried that I am going to find someone else. But I know myself, and I know I'm not going to... because I am not a big fan of people so I try to stay away from them. He asked me for advice: should he let go, or keep holding on. How do I get him to understand that he is the only person I want? And that he is the person that I want to spend the rest of my life with. I've sent him like 6 or 7 letters.

2007-09-06 19:32:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is there a point to the whining about it when he hits you when you know you should leave? Don't you think people are tired of hearing it?

2007-09-06 19:31:17 · 11 answers · asked by James Watkin 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-06 19:30:34 · 17 answers · asked by humperdinky 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend left for college three weeks ago. I leave one week from now. We agreed that we would break up while we were apart. However, I made him promise me he would not mess around with other girls until I left, because all my friends are out of town and I have nothing to do but be sad that he is gone. Thing is, his web page has tons of pictures of him drunkenly hanging on girls, girls and more girls.
I have to say, I haven't be entirely faithful either. Since he has left I've hooked up with two guys, and had sex with one of them. They don't mean anything to me, but I just need some sort of companionship, especially since I know what he's been up to.
Seeing those pictures makes me sick, but I don't know if I can say anything to him, especially since I haven't told him about the two guys.
HELP. Can I say something? Should I tell him?

2007-09-06 19:24:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating