Is there a point to the whining about it when he hits you when you know you should leave? Don't you think people are tired of hearing it?
2007-09-06 19:31:17 · 11 answers · asked by James Watkin 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm hearing you bud.
The biggest culprits are the ones who despite everyone's good intentions and answers, they still repeat the question because the advice everyone has given is not what they want to hear.
What the heck is up with that?
2007-09-06 20:21:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes we get tired of hearing it but it is a seperat situation for each of these women. It all sounds the same because they are all the same....persons with low self esteem and little self respect who have been found by controlling bullies and have allowed themselves to become totally dependant upon these men andfeel there is no way out for them and so they complain and whine instead of taking action. We should have some pity for them and thank God it is not us.
2007-09-06 19:38:17 · answer #2 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes but there is a further reason for not leave him and keep crying if you want the whining stop find that reason. People are not just stupid and like to suffer, there is much more underneath, much times we don´t know we could be happy.
2007-09-06 19:38:59 · answer #3 · answered by Lunazuly 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yeah tell my wife to shut up and make me a pie. But really, some women like to be in a bad area and have people just pity her. If she gets a great man she will leave him fast and come back to me again. Just kidding on coming back to me, but really there are women out there who like to be in the bad relationship so it is not them messing up. Someone has to mess up so it is best if it is him.
2007-09-06 19:38:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
They should know better than to stay with the guy who hits them. But some do not know that because they lack intelligence but we should tell them and help them anyways and let them know that they should leave the guy. Teach them what's right and what's wrong, some learn slower than others. Some aren't as bright as others.
2007-09-06 19:36:40 · answer #5 · answered by Dave 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, but everyone needs friends to talk to about their problems. If you don't want to be their friend, just avoid them.
2007-09-06 19:36:20 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sooner or later it might be you asking those same questions or your girlfriend.
2007-09-06 19:38:13 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You're right.
2007-09-06 19:37:30 · answer #8 · answered by ANU U 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah at times we do but on the other hand we all need to vent our concerns.......... and seek advice......
2007-09-06 19:37:08 · answer #9 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yeah!!!!!! Just stop listening!!!! That **** gets old!!!!
2007-09-06 19:36:39 · answer #10 · answered by A W 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋