2007-09-06 19:48:15 · 14 answers · asked by Sexy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think no matter how you say it, it may ruffle his feathers. Do you know that for sure yall will get in an argument? Will he get all defensive?
Well, does he treat all his female friends with respect? Not flirting or anything like that? Maybe if you notice inappropriate behaviour on his part, or if he's spending MORE time with them and not you, then you may wanna bring it up.
Good luck!
2007-09-06 20:23:03 · answer #1 · answered by ellen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does it bother you? This is what you really need to be looking at. Is it because they are female then you might have some trust/jealousy issues going on and not a good way to start a marriage. If it's because he spends 75% of his free time with them and 25% with you... then you need to talk to him about this.
Open communication is important in any relationship.
2007-09-06 20:43:21 · answer #2 · answered by Zabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does it bother you? Merely because they're female or for some other reason? Surely you don't expect him to banish all other females from his life. If you trust him, this shouldn’t be an issue. If you don’t trust him, then you have a big problem, because a relationship cannot survive without trust.
2007-09-06 20:06:06 · answer #3 · answered by kp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you would like to talk to him about this, and that it does bother you. Don't get upset if he doesn't understand at first...they are only friends, and if you are his fiancee, then you have him for life!
2007-09-06 19:54:05 · answer #4 · answered by You can do it!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a good idea to suggest that it bothers you...because you will not win that war. I know it sucks...but I have to accept that my husband has female friends....but I always see it as....I am the one with the ring and sleeping in the same bed as him so it does not bother me.
2007-09-06 22:00:30 · answer #5 · answered by XxSaRaHxX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have several female friends also. One is a pretty blond, there was a day that "It could have been " but didn't, another one, a brunette is very nice, she is hoping but knows, I am loyal to my wife. My wife knows I'm a flirt but, I do it in a professional way. You have to be a professional flirt to know what I mean. We all get a laugh.
I E these girls, they E me, my wife knows and it's all very simple.
2007-09-07 00:44:34 · answer #6 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you need to tell him , I think the problem is you . Your selfcentered. if you can't trust him then you need to look elsewhere. A good relationship is based on trust . My best freind other than my wife is a female coworker. My wife trust us and I would never abuse that trust.
2007-09-06 20:07:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as they are not lining up for a fiancee-position it should be fine,he chose you right......why does it bother you,you are the one with a problem
2007-09-06 19:53:19 · answer #8 · answered by ajal 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would only say something if it bothers HIM that you have male friends because then i can see that that's not right at all.
2007-09-06 20:04:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me guess, he had a lot of female friends since you met him, and all of a sudden you want him to change. There will always be a conflict when you want change.
2007-09-06 19:54:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋