Me and my girlfriend have been together for a year and a month now...and it seems we are changing..I am 18 and she is 19, we are both young and surely fine tuning, deciding who we are, and what we want to do for life. It seems as though the more time that passes the less in common we have with eachother. Things like she is perticularly shallow and thinks that the outside beauty is more important than inside beauty. I dissagree and have no problem with her feeling that way but I dont want to live with it and would like to move on. I have a more possitive out look on this were as she doesnt. She tends to be a very impulsivly angry person, and I dont know how to let her down easy ( I owe her a laptop due to a mother's day house cleaning accedent to boot...)......even though she was told not to leave it out... I still love her but love by very far has been the easiest part of this relationship and I fear it will get worn thin. given every detail what would be the best idea for me to do?
2007-09-06 19:49:32 · 7 answers · asked by inzpecter_gadget 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like she lost interest.
2007-09-06 19:56:42 · answer #1 · answered by ★→Damian←★ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you love her why this question. Love does not wear out it only grows. In the first place decide is really love the foundation of your relationship. In my opinion, I doubt it. You know what you want inside you. Leave it or keep it. Both of you are still teenagers you have a long way to go. Don't get anchored so soon. Take your time and know each other. Give yourselves a life see the world around before you decide.
2007-09-07 03:03:09 · answer #2 · answered by Neophyte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't sound like the one for you. Do you really want to be with someone who cares more about what you look like then how you feel? Anger problems? I've had relationships that went down hill cause of that. It can ruin a relationship. I would think to break it down easy with her. Or at least let her know how you feel cause if u still love her then maybe you guys can work out your differences. I've had a couple times where I thought I was about to either end our relationship or thought he was but we stay honest about our feelings and we work things out together to make it work. Hope everything works out with you good luck.
2007-09-07 02:57:23 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people grow apart, especially at your ages. You need to replace her laptop, and move on. It does not sound like either of you are ready for that lifetime commitment, so enjoy your life until you are ready. Don't waste it, because you can not get that time back.
2007-09-07 02:55:09 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
Sucks, but you gotta get out of it sooner or later, the way I'm seeing this.
2007-09-07 02:55:10 · answer #5 · answered by Shaggy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Run Silent, Run Deep.
2007-09-07 02:56:21 · answer #6 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hon move on... find that special girl with the qualities you want in them.... move on before you end up hating everything about her................
2007-09-07 02:56:41 · answer #7 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋