she likes to leave them open because she says it lets the cold air come in. well everytime she walks into her room with a towel she forgets to close them. she lives in an apartment complex with many windows facing her window only a few feet apart. it turns out a guy in our school lives right across. i don't know who but he emailed me wanting money. $300 otherwise he said he'll show pictures of her saggy boobs to the whole school. I didn't believe him but their was an attachment with her fully topless. What should I do? Should I tell her? just in case there are people that don't believe me here is the picture i was emailed:
http://good-times.webshots.com/photo/239...
i obviously covered her face and privates.
2007-09-06 17:18:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
sorry here is the link again. i uploaded it again:
http://good-times.webshots.com/photo/2394611660102099492jlPjLR
2007-09-06 17:34:00 · update #1
wow.. the picture was not found....but u have to tell her. U HAVE TO!
2007-09-06 17:26:45 · answer #1 · answered by CJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
Wow...this is obviously something you need to discuss with her; I understand feeling comfortable in your body, but can she feel comfortable knowing what strangers are seeing and doing? I suggest you show the pictures to her. I think she might freak out (or worse, she'll say "yeah, so?"); well if she freaks out, then we've kind of got a problem on our hands. You mentioned this guy was in your school: so report him. This is flat out blackmail and sexual harrassment. Print out the email and the picture and show it to the proper authority. Of course, there is always the downside of not knowing whether or not he will still release the pictures...if you do go to the authorities, make certain to cover these points. I don't know how you could personally handle it, since it's probable he'll just keep blackmailing you. I'm sure this experience will shock your girlfriend into keeping her windows and drapes firmly shut. Try a fan instead.
If she doesn't freak out...well then, I hate to say it, but it's no longer YOUR problem. You are just looking out for her, but if she doesn't want your help, then she's free to do whatever she wants.
Hope this helps :)
2007-09-06 17:43:54 · answer #2 · answered by stylediva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course tell her. She needs to know how much she's showing the world and what that world is doing with the view. But you may not like her response. If she's that willing to expose herself she may not care.
As for the blackmail, that's illegal. I'm not sure if you can really do much, but either way it's not your problem. Your girlfriend left the windows open and she has to deal with the consequences. Besides, what assurance do you have that if you pay he won't show the pictures anyway, or just keep asking for money?
2007-09-06 17:32:04 · answer #3 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, get her a website and she can make way over $300 in the first week alone!!! She likes the attention; take the high road and use it to your and hers advantage. She already knows what she's doing.
2007-09-06 17:36:11 · answer #4 · answered by "wheels" 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If its true, call the police, set it up that your going to pay him, and 'badabing' you keep your money, you keep the pictures, she doesn't find out, and someone is charged with a crime!
but in the end of the day do tell her, so she doesn't keep doing the same stupid mistake, again....
2007-09-06 17:29:04 · answer #5 · answered by Joule 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strange. She must like to be watched, or doesn't expect anyone to go by and notice, at the changing moment.
Why did you include that link, or put the pic online?
2007-09-06 17:46:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol ur girlfriend is so smart!! she like the attention...
2007-09-06 17:32:02 · answer #7 · answered by mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋