men only, did you ever cheat on your wife and why? did you tell her, if not does bother you she doesn't know

Question

How do you cope with the sense of guilt thst overcomes every day?

Answer 1

i am not married but i have a long relationship. i cheated before and i must admit it wasnt really a good thing cos at the end of the day i tried to be at two places at the same time thereby losing concentration on what i should do correctly in my matrimonial home and at the same time trying to make the other one happy.

there's no reason for cheating. Honestly. i did it cos.... no reason, i guess its a stupid way man always feel that they can always play a game well with any lady.

a friend is doing it now cos the wife doesnt give him enuff sex, the wife had 2children now and she has grown in size which changed his mind that she's not the same person he married.

some do it cos they dont seem to share same interest with the person. reason i beleiev that getting to know someone well is good before ever thinking of the ring.

i felt guilty that my gf didnt know, especially when she was showing all the love. When she finally knew, it nearly made her mad and i hated myself. I broke off with the other lady who i later found out was sleeping with another guy as at the time i was seeing her.

most of all no reason to cheat, its a bad way of life.

Answer 2

Myself, no.

Men and women do cheat every day for many reasons...all of them bad. Of friends and family, lying and cover ups always eventually fall apart and the cheater is left to explain why they have not told the truth for months or years. It puts EVERYTHING else they do in the light of a liar. It makes the other person feel like they have lived a lie the whole time.

People do make mistakes. If they do, they should be adult enough o admit it and come clean. Admitting it and repairing the relationship is hugely different from doing it, then getting caught and then showing remorse. It will bother ANYONE to hear that they have been cheated on. The steps to fix what's broken will be tough but honesty is the only way.

Answer 3

MY spouse cheated on me, several times, he was kicked out of the house, I won't say what I did to him but, I was on probation for awhile. He also lost his position in a well paying job, this happen at work, on the job.

Answer 4

I cheated on my husband and the guilt eats me up everyday. As soon as my daughter graduates highschool I am going to tell him.

Answer 5

Never did it. Had it done to me twice. My fault. I chose them as partners instead of hookers. I knew about them and was glad I did. Guilt is like cancer, because it eats at you every day. But unlike cancer, in that no one deserves cancer.

Answer 6

yes everyday