my girl friend is constently texting about 5 people when im with her i told her it feels like she would rather be doing something else with one of them but she says that not true.... i get frustrated because it seems like i get almost no time with her with out her phone in the way............HELP
2007-09-06 18:09:30 · 24 answers · asked by kyle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
watch out ,, that is how my gal cheated on me,, really !! right in front of my face!! put your foot down!! check her phone ,, look over her ,, I regret that I did not!
2007-09-06 18:18:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her how you feel and set some ground rules. Ask that she not text other people when you are together unless it is important. Tell her that if being on the phone is more important that spending time with you, then she must not care for you the way that you care for her. Let her know that she can be replaced!
2007-09-06 18:15:10 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's so disrespectful to you. I went to lunch with a guy who was texting the entire time. There was absolutely no conversation involved with us. You need to tell her straight up to just keep it to a serious minimum around you. I mean is texting that serious? I like to text, don't get me wrong...but when it's necessary, I put the phone away. Tell her how you feel, and ask her to do that simple thing for you. If she can't do that for your relationship then she won't give up different things in the future.
2007-09-06 18:14:55 · answer #3 · answered by TegLover 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a phone with you and the first time you have a chance to talk to her, send a text message to one of your friends. Continue sending these messages, when ever she starts talking to you. Maybe she will realize how rude. she is and stop texting when you are together.
2007-09-06 18:20:58 · answer #4 · answered by READER 1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her she can texts all she wants,but not when it's you and her time.if she continues to do so do the same to her to see how she feels and maybe she'll understand how you feel, but always tell her how it makes you feel and that you just want to spend time with her not her and the other people she's texting ....hopefully this will work for you otherwise she's not worth it if she wont put her phone down to spend good time with you..............hope this advice helped a little @least
2007-09-06 18:21:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The people who answered your question is correct. Her texting while with you is indeed very rude. If she cant curb, tell her you rather not hang with her. Or you can pay back in the same manner. SMS while with her to let her feel how is it like to be treated like you are invisible or sth...
2007-09-06 18:16:02 · answer #6 · answered by thetagal13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to get off her d amn phone and pay attention to u or ur gunna leave her so she text all she wants with no interuptions cuz obviousy thats all u are to her is an interuption!
2007-09-06 18:14:27 · answer #7 · answered by Abby Jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait it out, people get bored with texts, if it persists for longer then have a talk with her, but don't say it in an attacking form and make an arguement about it, if it starts blowing up into an arguement then be the mediator.
2007-09-06 18:14:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the new millennium, everyone has them. It's not because she is ignoring you or is thinking of something else, it's seriously almost sub-conscience at this point. I do it too, there are no ill or malice feeling involved. It's really just a habit.
2007-09-06 18:15:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confront her.
Tell her exactly why it bugs you, and politely ask her to turn her phone off or put the text message ringer on vibrate.
If she doens't cooperate, then she's not worth your time.
2007-09-06 18:16:06 · answer #10 · answered by Bethany: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chuck her phone out the window of the car. That'll stop her!
2007-09-06 18:14:04 · answer #11 · answered by Wolf Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋