i cant live without him. i dont know how i can understand this situation. last night callled him his cell was on waiting from 8;00 pm till 11:30 pm and i think onwards because last i tried to 11:30 then i dont know .
he did not call back me.
my situation is going worst...............
2007-09-06 18:53:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
his fiancee knows me . she knows that
2007-09-06 19:02:39 · update #1
he soon to be marry with another girl
2007-09-06 19:03:47 · update #2
Honey you are the other woman in this triangle and your situation is indeed going to get worse. Now listen carefully and read my lips if you have to.... This is NOT your man. He might have been having sex with you but he is not your lover because he obviously loves some one else, like the girl is is about to marry. You can so live without him and the sooner you make up your mind to do just that you are not gonna be happy. You have no future with this man other than being a booty call and a factor in his divorce. Go find a man of your own.
2007-09-06 18:58:55 · answer #1 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Emmi,I know that it does not look that way right now,But life goes on regardless.So he chose someone else so what.You are not meant to be together.The more time you spend going after the wind the more you lose sight of that guy who wants you and only you.Be at peace there is light at the end of even this tunnel.
2007-09-07 02:03:31 · answer #2 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I feel sorry for both you girls, this guy is a user and abuser.
He is messing with you feelings big time.
You really should not want him, he could do the same thing to you that he is doing to his wife to be, then how would you feel.
I feel the other lady needs to know before she says I do but if it came from you, he will convince her that you are just a disgruntled x girlfriend.
maybe you could find someone that knows all of you, to tell her.
She has a right to know her husband to be is a big huge CHEATER!!
Get away from him, he is bad news and you deserve much much better.
Good luck
2007-09-07 02:00:43 · answer #3 · answered by kitty 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It can be hard to watch someone you love love someone else. Maybe it would be for the better to cut ties with him and go your separate ways. That may be the only way to move on. By keep on pursuing him, you're only going to get even more hurt. It sounds like he's going to get married whether or not you like it.
2007-09-07 01:59:45 · answer #4 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to move on. There are a lot of people out there. If he's marrying another girl, then he's made his choice. He can't have both. You should focus on yourself and move on. Talk with friends/ family/ a therapist if you need to. I wish you the best.
2007-09-07 02:01:56 · answer #5 · answered by Brittae 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i appreciate your deep sense of love and caring. love is reciprocal and it is not practical or desirable to thrust yourself on the unwilling person. we meet many persons in our life. all relations cannot be permanent. in the situation it will be better to treat the present relation as closed and start life afresh. it is good to be loving and caring and emotionally attached with some body but there is a limit to everything. apparently, now is the ripe time to discontinue your current relation and begin life afresh.
2007-09-07 02:03:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You two are finished accept it, and move on. You lived before you met him and you will live after he's gone.
2007-09-07 02:09:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give up, he is getting married. You're going to have to learn to live without him.
2007-09-07 01:57:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let go hon and as hard as it will be for you move on.....otherwise you will find yourself being the other woman find someone that will want you
2007-09-07 02:00:06 · answer #9 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let the girl know that will be he end of that, most likely.
2007-09-07 01:58:37 · answer #10 · answered by thepeacelover01 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋