My husband comes home with his pay and he doesn't take any money from it, but whenever he goes and gets his pay he always comes home with stuff that he buys but it's not the money from his pay. I asked him where he gets the money from, his response is...why you ask? did you loose any money or it's my money. I'm always angry because he's not honest with me. I'm curious to find out but he keeps on doinng it but never tells me where he gets the money from. Please help me i need for him to tell me the truth. Can you help me?. What should i do?.
2007-09-06 15:54:03 · 8 answers · asked by MADALENE C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
get a job and do the same, it sound like you don't have much of a marriage.....
2007-09-06 16:05:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He bring's his pay home hand's it to you so bill's can be payed and food can be brought ? , then he magically make's money appear from no where to buy him something he may need or just want? and your upset because he isnt handing you his whole pay check and lying about it?.
Honey ALL men lie about how much they really make and those who say they dont lie and they do hand over their whole pay check to the wife are either lying or rare , both my husband's did they even lied about how much they got back on their tax every year , your not alone , but you want us to give you advice on how to stop him doing it?.
There is NO magical cure to make him hand you it all and there is no magical cure to make him stop lying about it , just be greatful you have a roof over your head , food in your belly , electricity payed and you have the internet.
Its just life deal with it or go out and get a job and dont tell him how much you earn.
2007-09-06 17:28:09 · answer #2 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sometimes when you push him to say something, he will fell like you try to keep an eye on him 24 hours. what you actually afraid of? are you worry that the money come from a dirty job?
maybe you should stop to find out, as long as he give you his salary and he still take care of you, and he's not cheating... you should not be worried about something that is not necessary. that just stress you up and will ruin your relationship with your husband...
2007-09-06 16:01:57 · answer #3 · answered by febe 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You cannot control him! Get that through your head first.
Next move on to being honest with yourself. You know where the money is coming from.
Then you will be ready for the decision stage.... good luck!
2007-09-06 16:08:38 · answer #4 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he cant be honest with you that means he doesn't trust you and he should tell u ur his wife that means his making some kind of money on the side if you know what i mean...just keep on asking him and tell him ur not gonna stop until u find out where that money is coming from...good luck
2007-09-06 16:02:53 · answer #5 · answered by asil 1 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Stop sticking your nose where it doesn't belong and TRUST him. That's what marriage is all about. You don't have to know everything. I'm sure you don't tell him everything, even if you say you do. All the pay is there. End of story.
You know what happened to the cat.
2007-09-06 16:02:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋
your husband is being ignorant. if i were you i will get my own job and do the same thing to him.
2007-09-06 16:11:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should be knowing this.. otherwise you will be in problem. But not with argument. U can ask him with love...
2007-09-06 16:05:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋