i have a friend who thinks i should get back with my exs bf she said if he did not care he would have not called that night or talked to me last friday see my family heats him has i have said befor but what i am asking is it to late what if he has a new gf and my family heats him i am 30 years old he is also in his 3o"s with a 9 year old son i miss him alot but scared to call and ask him i think it may be to late for use even throw i miss him and his son alot but my friend keeps talking to me about it she said her family heats her bf but she is still with him she is 25 years old not sure how old her bf is anyways what should i do please help please she even wants me to go to his house. should i ask him if he would take me back if he dose not have a gf he asked me to take him back and we were trying to work things out but my family called and told him to stay away from me and not to call this was sometimes back in june but he called one night i told him he could call when ever he wanted
2007-09-06 14:54:48 · 5 answers · asked by betty m 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to and he told me the same thing so i called him last friday we talked for a while.
2007-09-06 14:56:07 · update #1
because i love kids and want my own someday when i am marryed and he is not marryed anymore she marryed some one else had a baby with him so i got with him but were not dateing anymore because of my family long story.
2007-09-07 05:22:23 · update #2
The truth is...if a guy is your ex...he is your ex for a reason--what that means is that there was something he did wrong or you didn't like for him to not be your boyfriend anymore...if you think you can deal w/ that and/or work past whatever happened between you guys then....continue to my next point...
*when family doesn't get along w/ a person you're with that s not a good sign...love is blind and most times they see things about the other person that you cannot see about them. And let's just give him the benefit of the doubt and say that they are wrong and he really is an okay guy (he can't b a great guy because remember you guys have already broken up once so there might be something wrong w/ him) it would be hard to establish a future w/ him because there will always be that bitnerness or awkwardness when you are w/ him around your family. tensions will always run high and really it would be a lot of drama.
I personally don't think that any guy is worth having drama w/ ur family. guys come and go you're family is forever. there are other guys out there...really there is no need to stress so badly over ONE PARTICULAR guy.
BUT if you truely love him...if you really love him for him and not because you don't want to be alone...i don't see any harm in talking to him..but remember all the things i wrote before...you have to think...do you really want to potentially put yourself through this much drama for this one man? is he worth it?
2007-09-06 15:07:18 · answer #1 · answered by Me being Me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you really think he is a good guy and absolutely won't miss out on him, get back together and slowly let your family see what a great guy he is and how compatible he is with you. They probably are not accepting him because of his son. If they are scared of the frozen relationship with most stepchildren and step moms, assure them that this will not happen. You might not get your happy ending, but go for it if you think it's worth a shot. Best of luck! (:
2007-09-06 15:00:22 · answer #2 · answered by mareyys 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, ask him. But better to have a good person for your life partner, why are you going with a person who already has a son?
2007-09-06 20:20:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you know if he hurt you oncee dont you think theres a slight chnce he would do it again..and dont think about it just do it!! follow your heart...everything happens for a reason. and live on the present leave thee past in thee past. good luck,.
2007-09-06 14:59:37 · answer #4 · answered by Darla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T BE A Silly Goose
2007-09-06 14:59:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋