2nd marriage for both, we have have been married almost 13 years. She had sex with a large number of men before we married, I enjoy hearing details when she will give them
2007-09-06 15:38:36 · 13 answers · asked by boxthad 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I get a little excited when I think about my husband with another woman as well. I don't know if this is weird, I guess most would think so, but I don't care.
2007-09-06 15:43:36 · answer #1 · answered by AskMe 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is probably the image of her enjoying her orgasm that is the most powerful. Since most men feel jealous, as I am sure you have felt too in other situations, the confusion is quite justified. However, sometimes a woman's sexual responses have the effect of making men want to give her more pleasure. This is quite normal. In the end, sex is all about pleasure. We give, we take and we watch. If the relationship is otherwise healthy, if there is understanding and respect, then I think you needn't feel like something is wrong with you. Enjoy those images and treat yourself to the pleasure she gives you.
2007-09-06 15:50:00 · answer #2 · answered by Stanley S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
different strokes for different folks. Personally, I don't want to think about my wife being with another dude. The notion of her being with a woman though is HOT.
I don't think it is wierd for anyone to have their own fantasy of what ever they want to. The only lines I draw that would make me think you were off would be kids or animals.
IMHO, sexual turn-ons are programmed into your brain and you don't have a lot of control over their impact on you.
Some people here would say I don't respect my wife, but I swear I have always been turned on by FMF threesomes. I can't unprogram that and pretend it doesn't turn me on.
Some people would say "if you loved your wife, she would be enough". Well, I am happy with my wife. I would be happy if we never have a threesome...but if she ever decides she wants to, I won't be arguing.
2007-09-06 16:56:15 · answer #3 · answered by DH1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not as nutty as you might imagine. There are plenty of men who fantise about their partners being with others. But playing with it in your mind and putting it into practice are two completely different things. Not being a swinger myself I would have a hard time if it were to truly go down. And the fact of today's diseases being transmitted so easily must also be considered. As well the possibility of people becoming attached and then starting to cheat when the partner isn't around are also variables that must be taken into consideration.
2007-09-06 15:45:21 · answer #4 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nothing wrong with a little bit of fantasy, a little excitement at thinking of your wife as being sexy to others. Just shows that you think she's a hottie & that you are grateful to have her in your life.
2007-09-06 16:01:46 · answer #5 · answered by Maureen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you both don't have any respect for each other, because if you did, you wouldn't get turned on by the thought of your wife having sex with other men.
2007-09-06 15:45:05 · answer #6 · answered by Bryan M 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Fantasy and being arroused is fine .
Word to the wise , keep it as fantasy or she'll be moving out and you'll be hunting wife #3 if you act on it.
2007-09-06 16:17:58 · answer #7 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually there's nothing wrong with that. it just display how open minded you are as person, plus perhaps it's a way of exploring your fantasy.
but do you think you can really take seeing your wife being **** in front of you, or is this simply in thoughts?
2007-09-06 16:23:33 · answer #8 · answered by jCrawler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I guess it's just a fantasy for you. I don't see anything wrong with fantasies
2007-09-06 16:03:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have these fantasies as well. It is probably more common than you think
2007-09-06 17:48:31 · answer #10 · answered by golfinggoddess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋