Alright, as you already know, I'm 19, almost 20, never had a girlfriend, not even a non-serious one, not even for dating, all i've done is kiss. I'm still sort of shy but I'm overcoming it, anyway, any males & females who are 19 or 20 & older that have never had a boyfriend/girlfriend & are still virgins please let me know, cause it makes me feel better when I have people I can relate to, cause I feel pathetic & worthless since I haven't had a girlfriend yet, I'm straight. I feel as I'm the one of very few people like this, but some people & my conscience tell me there are more people in my situation than I realize. So am I the one of very few people that has never had a girlfriend yet?, if know you people who have never had a boyfriend/girlfriend & are still virgins let me know please, it will really make me feel better & more confident, it will make me feel not so alone.
2007-09-06 23:41:10 · 12 answers · asked by introvertedguy06 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel really depressed & worthless because of this, but I'm starting not to make a big deal about being a virgin, because I know there are more people out there that are virgins than are people who have not had boyfriends/girlfriends, I sometimes feel suicidal because of this issue, so, please help, having people to relate to makes me feel so much better.
2007-09-07 11:33:56 · update #1
Hey don't sweat your situation, I'm still a virgin and never had a girlfriend, and I'm 21. Granted it's kinda embarassing, but so what? I mean most guys i know who had girlfriends are now really pissed because of the drama most girls gave, and continue to give them. I know that one day I will be putting up with the same thing they did in order to just get laid, but hey that's life. Don't think your the only one out there whos in your shoes 'cause your not. There are a wholeworld of people just like you and me, just that because of society and the machismo front most guys put up, they are not easy to find.
2007-09-14 22:49:45 · answer #1 · answered by wardog_blaise 1 · 2⤊ 4⤋
I'll turn 20 in December and I'm still a virgin. But I've had bfs though.. not much just a couple ; ). I'm saving myself for marriage eventhough I'm not religious!
My bestfriend on the other hand is 20 and she's never had any sort of relationship before, never even went on a date and ofcourse she's a virgin too. Anyway when the time comes it will happen just don't rush things and enjoy what you have now. Being single isnt that bad believe me. You will definetily get hitched one day or another, just when you're truelly ready!
Good luck ♥
2007-09-06 23:50:55 · answer #2 · answered by I Am Jack's Wasted Life 5 · 8⤊ 0⤋
I'm 24 and have not ever had a boyfriend, and I've never even kissed someone. So I know how you feel. Sometimes I feel the same way you do. I just try not to obssess over it. And all of my best friends are virgins and don't feel that they made the wrong decision. Don't feel alone, your not the only one out there even though it seems like you are.
2007-09-14 17:08:37 · answer #3 · answered by Eve A 2 · 11⤊ 1⤋
I'm 19 and I've also never had a boyfriend, still a virgin. I get sooo lonely. Ppl want to have sex, but of course anything that moves can have sex, I'd want more, something that would last, not a one night stand. At this point I'm not sure how to even find someone who's interested in me and thats frustrating.
-haha i hope this very depressing post made u feel better.
2007-09-08 12:14:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 21⤊ 0⤋
Uhh yea, I'm a guy that's going on 20 in a month and I'm also in your situation. I'm in my second year of college and haven't made any friend since I've been here. Like you, never had a girlfriend, never kissed one, and never even had one as a friend before. Does it get depressing? Yeah, but I just tend to ignore it. It's not like I'm ugly or anything either because girls approach me or stare at me all the time, but lack of social skills from having extremely overprotective parents have caused myself, my sister, and brother to become extremely unsocial. My brother is even worse, he's not gay but doesn't like girls either, and he's almost 16! Now that you know that me and you are similar, maybe you'll feel a little better? I'm glad that I'm not the only one either, but I wish you luck my friend.
2007-09-07 19:08:48 · answer #5 · answered by surftaco400 1 · 29⤊ 0⤋
Sex is just a "thing"! And having it with someone these days is a very risky thing. It is so not important. I am 27, I'm not a virgin, but looking back I wish I would have waited. I'm sure most people who have had sex say the same. And your only 19! You speak like your 50, you need to concentrate on your career, and having stability in your life before worry about sex. Sex is for reproducing anyway, are you ready for that? Please don't let this depress you, there is to much going on in the world for this to get you down.
2007-09-14 16:25:47 · answer #6 · answered by 3030gal 3 · 2⤊ 5⤋
I have a friend that will be 21 shortly and he hasnt even kissed a girl yet. People pick on him all the time but i look up to him for it.
2007-09-14 16:01:33 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle 4 · 12⤊ 1⤋
I'll be 25 this coming October... I'm still single and a virgin, never had any serious relationships.. never been kissed! So don't be too hard on yourself... I'm not.. :-)
2007-09-14 21:22:28 · answer #8 · answered by ~pReTTy GaL~ 1 · 10⤊ 1⤋
That would b me.. im nearly 20 and neva even kissed a guy.....my friends try to set me up with any1 they know because they think because i dont have a bf i have no life...but im still young and like doing things on my own(sport ect)....i do get lonely sum times but ill date when im ready:)
2007-09-06 23:57:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 12⤊ 1⤋
I'm 28 years old and I've never had a boyfriend. I'm wanting to find that special someone. I don't like the idea of hooking up with random guys. I won't lower my standards to get a boyfriend. I'm also a virgin and proud of it!! I don't plan on having sex until after I'm married. I have morals and values that I stick by!! So I'm proud to be a virgin!!!
2007-09-14 15:51:02 · answer #10 · answered by P 5 · 23⤊ 2⤋