There is one girl that I am attracted to, I met the other day, and I really wanted to get to know her. She's very pretty. However, I began talking to another girl today at a shop, and she mentioned that she talked about me before with the owner of the store. I only met her once before, so it seems she must have interest enough. I have a few problems though. I'm not afraid or anything. I almost called the girl I talked to today to ask out, but I really wanted to get to know the other girl, who is a sweetheart. They are 2 different personalities it seems, but I'm attracted to both. The other one is more feminine, and I like that, whereas this one cusses and stuff, which is okay, but a little viril. I like the whole charming, sweet thing. I really haven't talked much with the other girl, but I want to. The other girl is a little prettier too, and from another Country. This one is the typical pretty American. The other looks almost like Carmen Elektra, but sweet, and thinner.
2007-09-06 22:49:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can't make up my mind. I'm not the type to mess around with 2 women. It's just not me. I'm stuck. I haven't even had a girl friend in 11 years, and I'm totally confused. Damnit!
2007-09-06 22:50:34 · update #1
I don't have any money; I don't even have a job, but I'm going to college. I'm still somewhat confident about myself.
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2007-09-06 22:57:11 · update #2
There is not reason that you have to start dating either one of them right away. Start by being friends with them both. This will give you a chance to get to know the two of them and see what they are both like. Then after a little while (maybe a month) of getting to know them, you will know which one you are more attracted to and would rather date. There is no reason you have to jump right into dating either of them.
2007-09-07 00:34:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date both one at a time. Your impression might change after being with them for dinner or drinks. It is possible you will continue liking the first girl more. Yet it is entirely possible the second girl is actually more fun to be with.
You are not being unfaithful to any of the two because there is no relationship at the moment.
2007-09-06 23:23:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You r thinking of 2nd girl only becuae u feel the ground is more secure. You thinks she likes you. But, why not take the first girl, since apparently this is the kind of girl you are looking for. Have some confidence in yrself. I understand it is not easy if u havent been in dating enviroment for long.
Good luck!
2007-09-06 22:57:46 · answer #3 · answered by gracegptx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the first one. You are obviously more attracted to her. If things don't work out there, you can always call the other one at a later date.
2007-09-06 22:53:47 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to be feast or famine!
I believe that u r not tied down at the moment and its time to see which characteristics stick out to you and are mosy important.
At times its only after getting to know someone that you start to like things about them u did not even know about!
See who likes to spend time with you and be fair to both.
I am sure one will come out the winner!
2007-09-06 22:55:57 · answer #5 · answered by Carla J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do some homework.. chase them without their knowlege know them more, ask their friends, try emailing her as a unkown person or chat with her via sms or somwhow..do your homework before you decide who should be in your life.. dont let anyone do this for you.. as you destine your own future.. Do the best as its your Life and no one can be happy for you other than yourself.
2007-09-06 22:55:55 · answer #6 · answered by BS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take both out on a date just one date if you like and you should know by the end who you mesh with more.
2007-09-06 22:54:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first, you dont have to date either one of them exclusivly and that way you can get to know them better, you dont have to jump into a exclusive relationship right away, that way you know if you are compatable with either one, so start out as friends. and if you are looking to jump into a relationship then go with the one you see being with for a longer time.
2007-09-06 22:56:28 · answer #8 · answered by mcheshster27 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay away from the first for some days and do the same thing with the second and see which one did you miss much.
Absence makes the heart grow fonder :-}
2007-09-06 23:02:47 · answer #9 · answered by purestar777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a similar problem. I have too much money. Oh yeah, and I'm too good looking as well.
You don't have a problem, you're just braggin'.
2007-09-06 22:57:30 · answer #10 · answered by Rob B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋