2007-09-06 23:53:29 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes. Not so much things that could compromise the relationship, but things I just don't think my partner would be interested in or want to know. I believe we're both entitled to our private thoughts.
2007-09-07 00:03:30 · answer #1 · answered by countrygent07 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
The only good secrets I've kept from my wife were when I bought her birthday or Christmas presents, or anniversary gifts. Or also what I was planning on getting her.
But bad secrets, yes I have. I had an addiction to porn, and for a while I didn't want her to know that I was looking at that crap, and when she found out, we had a big fight, because to her, I was cheating on her by looking at that stuff. And in a sense I was. I was giving my attention to another woman who is not my wife, and was telling my wife by looking at it, that she wasn't enough for me. So yes I have kept secrets from her. And I've been so ashamed of doing so, because of the pain and hurt I caused her.
2007-09-07 00:27:22 · answer #2 · answered by Bryan M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES
I kept the fact that I still liked my ex a deep dark secret from
her and everyone else after she went back to her ex as it
was an excruicatingly hard thing to deal with
you may now don the robes and issue m hail marys to say
or at least perscribe a grey goose bloody mary
wP
2007-09-07 00:12:57 · answer #3 · answered by Warriorpoet 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The right person would know every detail about me no secrets, it's called unconditional love. my first wife knew EVERYTHING about me, but she choose another path. My current wife will not know me as well, as I've not been able to find that level of emotion with her.I guess my answer would be Yes !
2007-09-07 00:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by Samuel g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We both decided that we should maintain our own lives in the ways that we choose. We don't have secrets, per say, but occasionally we both allow ourselves the option to say, "I need to default" which means I want more time to digest what we are going to say. We both are fully aware this isn't hiding secrets but simply choosing to wait, as we both know that we know each other.
2007-09-07 02:07:28 · answer #5 · answered by beemusic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Miss Grace, Yes I did ! From the begining I knew that she had cheated the night we were married !
2007-09-07 04:19:26 · answer #6 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes there have been things. NONE of which that were major. Small things I've kept to myself about the kids or money.
2007-09-06 23:58:22 · answer #7 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes but if I told my secret on here then it wouldn't be a secret anymore.
2007-09-06 23:58:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Nope. Probably why we are happily married 18 years.
2007-09-07 00:53:17 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I did.
But I told him after a while and it was the worse mistake I ever done.
Some things are just better left unsaid.
2007-09-06 23:58:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋