I'm sorry if the question is wrong. (I'm not an english user. It is so hard to learning new languages.)
I'm gay and lately I made some new friends. I met them at the park While we were traing for a marathon. They brings their girl friends over to my house and haning out this weekend.
I heard from my other friends that sometimes straight guys uncomfortable with gay guys and I'm afraid I make a mistake.
Can you guys have any advice?
2007-09-06 23:53:27 · 5 answers · asked by esprit967 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thank you guys for advice. It's not that hard as I thought. Oh and One more qeustion. Who is Kylie? And Talking About Corinne Bailey Rae is okay?
2007-09-07 00:47:32 · update #1
I think that if they are your true friends they will accept you as who you are!!
just be yourself and try not to hit on any of them and dont be all flirty and touchy feely with them, just treat them like you treat all your other friends and dont think about how your acting around them just relax and be normal so that you dont make thing akward
2007-09-06 23:57:34 · answer #1 · answered by omfg did you really ask that.... 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Avoid the following conversation topics:
- Soft furnishing
- Theatre (especially musicals)
- Fashion
- Kylie or Madonna (unless it involves wanting filthy sex with them)
- Elton John or George Michael
- Big Brother and other celebrity/reality TV stuff
- Eurovision Song Contest
- Underarm shaving
Don't wear tight or short trousers (especially both).
T-Shirts should have sleeves!
Don't make a quiche - or admit you eat it
Drink beer
Talk about sport (not ice skating)
Use phrases such as:
"I'd give HER one"
"Excuse me while I fart"
Belch and scratch your genitals and lot.
2007-09-07 00:02:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't try to be too touchy with them, or flirt too much with their girlfriends. You should be fine, as many mature straight men don't have anything against homosexual men so long as they aren't hitting on them. Try to sit next to their girlfriends instead of them, unless they don't know you're gay, in which case you're better off standing with a few of them. Be polite to them and their girlfriends, and don't try to pay too much attention to any one of them, as that gets a little unnerving. But don't forget to have fun, and be comfortable as it is your own house.
2007-09-07 00:00:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and tell them that they can relax with you and you are just friendly with people as brothers and stuff..... if they retailate or speak bad just kick them out of your home.
2007-09-06 23:59:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just don't get too close, or touch them and everything should be fine.
2007-09-06 23:58:58 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋