my baby passed away 2 years ago just b4 her first birthday ., i have recently broken up with my babys mother , if i or her go on 2 have kids in our next relationship , who will we be with when we pass over . the thought of not seen my baby again rips my heart out . or do we all be one big happy family . no mucking about please
2007-09-08 07:42:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
There is absolutely no way anyone can know that, but if heaven is to have any real meaning I don't see how you could not be with your baby.
2007-09-08 07:50:10 · answer #1 · answered by chasrmck 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your question is on the lips of many other people my love...I too have lost a baby.
What helped me through it all..and i very very nearly 'lost it' was to embrace the concept that...As tragic as things seem...Though a small part of the bitterness never goes away..Time most definately does heal and i first dealt with things by creating a little 'shrine' if you like...in a glass-fronted corner cupboard,i have all my things that remind me of my baby boy.I rarely go into it,But it's there,That's MY little place for him.
and to cut a very long story short..Once i had accepted the fact ,Deep in my heart,That my baby was gone,i actually believe,and i swear on my living children,that i was 'visited' by a close family member,in the 'next life', who was holding my baby boy and instantly the feeling came over me that he was ok and being cared for and was simply..waiting for me!
Im now still only 28 and dont plan on leaving this life for a bloomin good while yet but i can lay my head to rest knowing that whenever i DO....Yes ALL those that are dearest in my heart will be there for me when it's time for me to go.
All my best wishes to you x
2007-09-08 15:27:09 · answer #2 · answered by mel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your baby is with you, she is in your heart and nothing or nobody can ever take that away from you. I lost a baby over 19 years ago, I've put her to bed in my mind but she will live forever in my heart and one day we will meet again. You'll be the same.x
2007-09-08 14:58:03 · answer #3 · answered by Bernie c 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel i lost my baby son 9 years ago now he was stillborn i still blame myself every day . you are still grieving right now but things do get better as time gos on you will have more kids and you will look at them and see your daughter in them so in away she will always be with you . dont worry about heaven she is there waiting for you and her mum and when the time is right for you both to go there there will be no compation between any of you she will still love both of you the same . please take time to let your self heal good luck for the future.
2007-09-10 07:12:38 · answer #4 · answered by K H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe we all meet up again. But there will be no such thing as relationships Like you say It will be one big happy family There will be no holding grudges or jealousy that way people who have lost partners and have remarried again can meet up again .I believe you will see your baby again regardless of the circumstances here on earth.
2007-09-08 14:56:26 · answer #5 · answered by Mar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At the moment your baby is in the spirit world, and she is being looked after by spirit people who were picked for this special work.
When the times comes for you to pass over she will be waiting for you, never doubt that because love cannot die so please don't worry.
2007-09-08 16:28:18 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you will all be together happily. im so sorry about your baby i have a 21 month old girl and that is my worst fear. i hope you will be happy again one day look to the future everything will work out and your baby will always be with you
2007-09-08 14:52:23 · answer #7 · answered by katy g 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Babies are innocent and don't know better. She will be in Heaven, but make sure you are going to be there, too!
Accept the Lord Jesus as your Savior and you'll be guranteed a spot in Heaven, not to mention your own mansion on a street of gold.
2007-09-08 14:59:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am so sorry for your loss.
I believe when die and enter heaven we are all brothers and sisters for we are god's children. Your baby is God's child now and all her brothers and sisters were there to greet her just as they will for you one day.So yes the answer is one big happy family!
2007-09-08 22:57:13 · answer #9 · answered by Dawn W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will be reunited with your child when you pass ,children grow in the spirit world and you can both be reunited, so put your mind at rest,and be happy talk to your child in your own mind and acknowledge her. be happy and live your life you will be together when your time comes.(good luck)
2007-09-09 16:22:17 · answer #10 · answered by haggis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋