Thoughts about a 53yr old woman in skin tight jeans(Labia Majora clearly visible) & tops w/cleavage showing?

Question

What is the general opinion about risque' clothing and females? Your honest and open minded comments are crucial...in fact, the future of a marriage may depend upon it...This Opinon Poll and a couple of other sources of research are being looked into before a final decision is made...so your help is desperately needed. Thank You

Answer 1

I am a 53 year old Woman and the first thought that came to my mind when reading this is...I would never dress in such a manner, nor does a grown Woman have to, to attract attention. This Woman you are talking about obviously feels she needs to attract attention to be fulfilled mentally. She may be doing it because her self esteem is low, and any attention is better than none. If she is in a committed relationship and her Fiance does not mind her doing it is something else but if he does object and yes she is asking for alot of flirtatious comments, then he needs to make his feelings known NOW, after they are married is too late..

Answer 2

Personally, if I was the 53 year old woman, I'd try to look more classy, but I give it to the ladies who are brave enough to wear that. She's probably just young at heart and loves attention. But don't let it get to you...all she needs is the proper guidance...to be revealed to her properly, of course. Does she have a problem with her age? Maybe the look that SHE believes a 50 year old should portray doesn't match her personality. A 50 year old woman can still look sexy and classy at the same time. A woman's personality makes her young...not her clothing. On the side note...visible labia majora is extremely funny, but for goodness sake, give the woman a better set of jeans to increase her blood circulation. The poor woman must be suffocating in those...

Hope that helps you. *^_-

Answer 3

WHAT? are you serious? If you're talking about that woman on the bowflex commercials who has grandkids and stuff... then, I guess she can pull it off.
but as for any other 53 yr old woman.... they are too old to do all of that. show some respect for your age... I know 53 years ago people were still wearin long skirts passed their knees and turtle neck sweaters. I feel real awkward when I see people wear clothes they can't pull off whether it be the color of the clothing, their size, or WHATEVER! I'm so critical when it comes to that kind of thing because people are so focused on how they look these days...

Answer 4

Yeah, see muffin tops and camel toes don't got together. Especially in the summer (ever hear of the sweat shadow effect....eeeewww). Just stroll thru a New England mall.....

You can dress classy and sexy- it says I'm confident, beautiful, comfortable in own skin.
Trashy and flashy speaks of insecurity, self-esteem issues.

What first impression do you want to send out to people?
Hi, I'm really insecure, have low-self esteem and will do anything for attention- especially exposing/advertising myself to the point it's painful to look me in the eye.

Or,
Hi, I love the person I am, confident with how I look and respect myself enough to be sure that I look presentable when I leave my home everyday. And best of all, I don't follow trends because I look timeless.

Answer 5

I'm 57 and if I HAD a great body( and I do mean GREAT), I MIGHT be tempted to show off what I've got.... HOWEVER, I have seen what women look like in their 50's who dress like they are in their 20's and I'm not EXACTLY SURE if they are trying to show off their bodies or PROVE that old women with good bodies SHOULDN'T Dress like 20 year olds... There are things that happen to a woman's body around 40 and continue to happen until death that are NOT all that pretty (sagging inner arms, drooping breasts, the gravitational pull so to speak) wearing skimpy shirts that show just how far down that cleavage HAS dropped DO tend to look rather ridiculous on older women... Dress for COMFORT, YES, dress to POP OUT SOMEONE's EYEBALLS? NO....if these 50ish women were your DAUGHTER, you would CERTAINLY want her to dress accordingly---I'm not talking hightop colors and dresses to the ankles...... I'm talking sexy but not DISGUSTING outfits...... most 50'ish women who wear TOO TIGHT CLOTHES look a bit like common STREET WALKERS (hookers)....

Answer 6

You paint such a nasty picture in our minds.....eewww!!!

53 y.o. Majorlabiaslut in tight jeans and showing off her Major Camel Toe is not something I would want to bring home to anybody....Top with cleavage, how much cleavage?

She's dressing like a wanna be young cheap stripper in denial who should be more classy, if she takes off the over-the-shoulder-boulder-holderrrr, will her udder hang to her knees, or will her droopy socks cover her Major Camel Toe so that she can stop making everyone sick:(

Please don't tell me this Majorslut is bing proposed to? There was one in my family, she never changed her ways and my brother lived to regret it, the Sluttt in her never went away, that's why they separated.

No respect!!

Answer 7

if she looks good wearing it, that's great!!! If she looks pretty bad, then she has bad taste in cloths and needs help from one of those TV shows like "What Not To Wear" LOL.

Why would marriage depend on someone's style? You are marrying another person, not their cloth style. But if you think she dresses inappropriately, then someone close to her should talk to her. Or next time her future husband should go shopping with her.

Answer 8

Not tasteful at all. I picture a woman in that age range to be conservative and stylish. More of the Chanel look or Bananna Republic with slacks and a button down and heels with her hair clean and colored and light makeup. Woman in their 50's dressing like that are in denial and are looking for a man so they will need to stick out like a sore thumb to get one because younger woman are taking all of them ;) Its gross!

Answer 9

Let's not punish a 53 yr. old for giving us something fun to think about. Don't let it go to your head either - she's probably laughing at all the teens who glance her way with mouths open and tongues hanging. It sure is an interesting world, isn't it?

Answer 10

i think it just degrades women even more. It makes us look like big sex symbols when we can wear baggy sweats and a tank and turn on any guy. Women these days are so insecure about the way they look, they are forgetting about anything else.
It is sending the wrong message to guys everywhere!
Yes, we should take care of ourselves. But no, we shouldnt be looking like strippers at work, or at our kids' school, or at the grocery store: IT IS SO UNNATURAL!