i think you have it right on both parts but i think guys look for that physical beauty thing in the beginning of the relationship, and after the newness of the relationship wears off, guys are looking for that personality
but that's just my opinion
2007-09-08 01:46:37
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answered by sexy joker 6
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Here I'll just copy-paste my answer from the first OF MANY times this question was asked:
"The number one quality that a girl can have is... (drum roll)... RADIANCE (Passion+Hapiness in equal, large amounts)!
For most guys this absolutely trumps everything else, including looks. Hands down. In fact, guys will come (no pun intended) because of good looks and the prospect of sex, but radiance is what makes them stay. Even confidence, intelligence, assertiveness, and other undoubtedly positive and desirable qualities to have are no match for radiance, and are indeed almost worthless without this key ingredient.
In fact I will relate a true story: This super model was part of one of my social circles for a while and one day she brought a friend along. My first thought was "Damn, couldn't she have brought some of her HOT friends" which should sum up nicely my opinion of her looks (at THAT time!). As soon as that girl however opened her mouth I was forced to eat my words. We talked all night, for hours even though it felt like only minutes had passed, briefly hooked up (if it was up to me it would have gone further) and she is still one of my top friends I see and talk to very often.
2007-09-08 10:38:16
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answered by Anonymous
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I am first attracted to appearance (which is hard to find). I've always had an image of how I prefer my girl to be - petite, pretty face, nice ass, curves... THEN comes the personality, respect and morals that she has. ANY of these can over run a girls appearance. Such as if she has a bad, snobby attitude, it doesn't matter what she looks like but her personality would make her ugly as f*ck. That's mainly about it.
2007-09-08 08:49:36
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answered by Me 3
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In my opinion i fully think that personality is the best to shoot for. There is a saying that goes "don't judge a book by it's cover" which i personally like cause if you like their personality then what she likes might just be what you like also. I have also known that if you like a lot of things she does then your more than likely too hit it off with her. Once you start liking her personality her likes and dislikes starts coming out of course i am not totally sure if that's true for everyone that's just my experience with the relationship part.
2007-09-08 08:56:25
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answered by Tiger 1
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To me? Her attitude. I don't mean a bad attitude so much as a woman who isn't afraid to just be herself for better or worse. At the end of the day, there isn't anything more sexy than that for me - but good looks do help.
2007-09-08 08:47:47
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answered by Jeremy R 2
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big lips are annoying to me, Jolie looks like she has some form of lip cancer.
#1 for me is voice and conversation - if the girl/woman is petty or has an irritating high pitch squeel - it's over.
Obviously a "fit" woman is helpful.
2007-09-08 08:45:30
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answered by wigginsray 7
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in order personality, face, smile, voluptuous curves
2007-09-08 08:48:03
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answered by hunter1 3
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her soul.. her personality is the first thing i find attractive in a woman.... even if you dont think she is very attractive at first sight.. the more you find her personality attractive the more you will find everything about her attractive!! :) follow your heart bro... we all work different! and have diffrent opinions .. that there is just mine.. hope it all works out... have a great weekend
2007-09-08 08:48:32
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answered by Robert C 1
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good personality overall...think about it you could live with a hot girl that knows shes hot and flaunts it and gets annoying & thats a bitch ....or a sexy sweet girl that doesn't have a care in the world, rather be with the sweet girl wouldn't you? :)
2007-09-08 08:48:42
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answered by haloи†иiezwyciężony 2
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confidence make the women very attractive+intelligence of course
2007-09-08 08:48:07
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answered by Anonymous
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