Been with gf for 3 yrs. Have a 2 yr old son together. Her mom is going to college and is taking this course in computers and wants me to do it all. She's bribed me (bought giftcards), my gf puts me on the spot when her mom calls and asks for help. Every weekend I'm spending my time over at her mom's house doing her f'ing hmwk. My gf doesn't want to step in and tell her mom something. I have told my gf off about her mom, thinking this would prompt her to tell her mom to backoff, but still nothing.
Whose responsibility should this be? My gf or mine - to tell her do your own f-cking homework, or am I being a little unconsiderate? I'm already done with college - I don't mind helping but the whole f-ing assignments?
Sorry for all the bad language, I'm venting a little here...
2007-09-08 02:00:58 · 11 answers · asked by Me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The the first answerer, YES she even wants me to take her damn test.
She already calls me from work at my job and asks how to do this and that. It drives me CRAZZZY!
2007-09-08 02:18:45 · update #1
It's crazy!!! Thanks for all the great answers. And I think I'm going to screw up all the assignments this weekend and keep the giftcards!!!!
The only thing I was worried about was looking like the azzhole but after all these great ideas, thanks to you all.
2007-09-08 02:27:33 · update #2
So after you do all the work for the class, the mom has gained no knowledge of the course work and will go into a workplace saying that she knows it!
This is cheating, it is morally and ethically wrong. Stop it now!
Use the above line and tell little miss lazy mom to get with the program and do her own work!
2007-09-08 02:16:52 · answer #1 · answered by Rebecca W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah... venting here is okay. Girlfriend and mom should both know better. DO NOT do your gf's mom's homework, Really... then she gets a job and what? she's gonna call you and ask you to do her job over the phone ?
Just say no. You don't have to defend nor do you have to explain. No. If they give you a hard time... perhaps you need to think about whether she's right for you. This is not something that will change unless they start to get it. It also doesn't bode well for what she is teaching your son. Think about this.
Tell your gf - no more home work help. It's time mom accepted she has to learn on her own. GF can then tell her mom. and stop there.. do NOT allow yourself to engage.
Shame on both of them.
2007-09-08 02:10:17 · answer #2 · answered by teritaur 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a quick fix here! Start failing! Would you use someone who doesn't understand the assignment? Ask questions she can't answer then if she doesn't know the answer tell he you can't guarantee a passing grade. With one "F" she will not want you anywhere near her homework. I know this is border line evil,but I had to do this with my wife's math course. I was working two jobs only to come home and spend 3 hours doing her homework. I failed once and she started studying on her own, she passed too and felt better for it doing it on her own!
2007-09-08 02:14:02 · answer #3 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should have time with ur kid not with gf mom... Tell ur gf this cannot continue so, i already see some fireworks over there.... parents should let u live your lifes... i think best is to get far far away from parents then just go visit few times a year.... they will then really apreciate that visit and not put sticks in a relationship.....
2007-09-08 02:14:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your girlfriend's mother that stupid? That she can't do her own homework? Yes they are asking you to do too much....better question is WHY ARE YOU DOING HER HOMEWORK? I think YOU need to tell the mom that you will not do her work any longer.....are you suppose to be there to take her test as well?
2007-09-08 02:10:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it should be her responsability and only hers turn your phone off or set a different ring tone for her calls and don't answer that one tell her to stop making you do her homework and start flunking all the assignments on purpose
2007-09-08 02:36:43 · answer #6 · answered by oh_jo123 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why u blame ur gf or her mother, if you dont want to do her home work say her politely in life always learn to say NO otherwise everybody will be using ur services
2007-09-08 02:10:48 · answer #7 · answered by cupiddear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your girlfriend won't do it, then you need to
it sounds like a big imposition and is creating problems in your life - just tell her that while you like her and want her to succeed you don't have that kind of time to devote to her studies.
your girlfriend should be supportive of that, and should say so to her mom
2007-09-08 02:10:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should Not be doing her homework at all...That is what she is suppose to be doing, she is after all the one going to school. Tell her to do it herself.
2007-09-08 02:15:11 · answer #9 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who's doing this course you or your g/f mum... if she can't do her work by herself then she should never have gone back to school... i would defiantly tell her to do it herself... if she gets stuck you are willing to help but are no longer going to do the whole assignment ....
2007-09-08 02:14:52 · answer #10 · answered by belle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋