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Question

what age do you think is okay to have sexx.im only a freshmen {9thgrade} but some people are already half virgins nd some people already did have sexx...what age do you think its okay to have it and what age to blo*w someone

Answer 1

ewwwwwwwwww. dont even think about doing it! just because other people are slutttttttttssssssssssssssssssssssuie whatsies doesnt mean you have to be. i am also in 9th grade and ewwwwww. i would never think about it even though lotsa people have.

refrain from doing it. it will be best for you in the end.

to answer your question, i htink really when you are married, or out of high school . until then. NO NO NO!


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Answer 2

mily, you are asking such a mature question. I'm surprised at your age your thinking like a grown up. Browse through some questions here and see how many people regret having sex early and WISH THEY WOULD HAVE WAITED. You might think you find someone you love and adore and want to have sex, but do you know what meaning of sex is? Sex shouldn't been something to do because everyone else is doing it - you would be a follower.

Instead, be a leader. Set an example, be a person others wish they could be. Save yourself until your AT LEAST 18. Your frame of mind matures, even more, and you will look back 4-5 years and realize how little you know about the world. Take in another 5 years and you'll know what I'm talking about.

People see things differently at every stage of their lives. People that are 30 yrs old wish they would have done this/that when they were young, because decisions they made when they were young affect their ENTIRE life. Please talk to your parents, or a teacher and take some words of wisdom from them. Good luck.

Answer 3

Kids these days are doing all this stuff way too young. The absolute youngest age you should do this is the legal age. Kids do these things for all the wrong reasons. The only time you should do that stuff is when you are with someone you think is very special and care about, not just trying to get a guy to like you. He won't respect you and will tell everyone how cheap you are. Do yourself a big favour and wait. Just because you reach the legal age does not mean you have to do those acts. When you do it with someoneyou love, it is nice and special, when you are with just a random guy, it means nothing and gives you a bad reputation. Don't have sex just for the sake of it. Have some self respect and dignity. People will admire you much more for not having sex than for doing it. If people call you names for not doing it, ignore them, they are worthless crap. Take my advice, one day you will thank me.

Answer 4

The person should be mature enough to accept the consequences of their actions. What if someone got pregnant? What if someone got a disease? Why not wait until you know you want to be with someone for the rest of their lives. Marriage is the best to wait. I know that there are very few who wait until marriage.
I was molested and raped and therefore didn't get that chance to choose. I now have HPV which is the virus for warts that can cause cervical cancer. I have never had the warts, but I have the virus that can cause warts in anyone anytime, even if I never get a wart.
There are so many other diseases people can get. It is not worth all the risks just for earthly pleasure. Remember, You can get things in your mouth too. You are not 100% guaranteed protection by using it. Be safe, not sorry.

Answer 5

OK, legally it is not against the law in some places to start having sex at 12 as long as the person you are having sex with is not more than 4 years older than you, but other places you can't start until you are 16.
I was 12 when I started to, but that is too young for many people. I found out as i grew older that age really is not important, it's how mature and responsible you are.
If you know what sex is, how to prevent pregnancy, how to keep from catching or spreading sex diseases, and you are having sex for the sake of your partner not just yourself, if having sex is not going to hurt anybody, then whatever age you start at just is not important, and it's really nobody elses business.
The reason people don't want you to start early is that it takes time to learn all that stuff, and one more thing. If a girl gets pregnant when she is too young, it can be very bad for her medically, bad for the baby, and kids have a hard time taking care of babies.
It is very very very important to KNOW enough about it when you start, because it changes your life.

Answer 6

Ok i dont care what people say there is no such thing as half virgins (and i know what they are but they dont exist) 2nd You shouldnt have to ask what a good age is you just know when your ready however even if you think your ready I would wait that much longer. Be at least 18 if anything else. But if you have to ask questions like this then you dont need to be doing anything at all. And who really cares what other people do

Answer 7

I've never heard of a half virgin. But I think that ages doesn't really matter if you're matured enough to suffer the consquences that comes with it. If you make the right decisions about having sex, it should be with that special someone that you truly loves not a one night stand or you hafta lose your virginity because everyone's doing it. That does the same thing for oral too! I'd wait til you know for sure if you really want to have sex with the one you truly loves.

Answer 8

i don't think anyone is ready to have sex until using lots of protection and is ok emotionally if things don't work out...first time i had sex i was 18 at the time i thought i was ready and then i realized how i really wasn't ready. i would highly recommend waiting to be an adult and settled in your life to support a child if you needed too...my niece is finding this out she is 18 and pregnant and is finding it very difficult to support themselves with a baby coming even though her and her boyfriend have jobs it doesn't seem to be enough money to pay for everything! So please think and use your head when it comes to this I know you are a very smart girl just by asking this question...it also tells me you are not ready because if you were you wouldn't be asking! I am a mom myself and it is very difficult having a child! I got pregnant at 23 and even that seems young and difficult! Sex is fun but it isn't so great to not wait for a few years! I highly recommend waiting!!!!! I wish I had waited for my husband but that is something you don't realize until it is too late! I know the pressure is really hard at school but please be strong and don't give in just because everybody thinks it is cool. I think it is even more cool to wait and a much harder thing to do which makes it very special for that special guy!!!!

Answer 9

If you can't even spell the word "SEX" right, then you are not mature enough to have it. Before you go out and have sex, in any shape or form, oral, vaginal, anal, whatever, you need to be informed about the consequences that come with it, and make sure that you are prepared to handle those consequences should they arise.

Also, make sure you are educated and prepared in safe sex practices before you do anything. The last thing we need on this planet is more kids having kids. Please, take your time getting to sex - I know there is a lot of pressure to do these things, but be assured that you should wait until you know the time is right, and with the right person.

Be safe, be educated, and don't rush. You will have the rest of your life to enjoy sex when you are mature enough to talk about it as a subject without misspellings and taboo thoughts.

Answer 10

erm half virgin no such thing u lose ur virginity when penetration happens anything else is described as acts of sexual passion

at ur age ur ready physically but its all about emotionally how u feel when u feel ready then wait a few more months or so with tht person

giving a blo*w is the same when u feel ready and connected

Answer 11

I think age is irrelevant from other peoples perspective. It's more important how you think about sex. It's not just fun and games after all - and while it can be fun and exciting, if you don't take it seriously and you're not responsible with yourself then you should not consider doing anything sexual. You yourself should know if you're too young, deep down inside you'll just kinda know it's wrong. Think about what you want to do, and why you want to do it. It doesn't matter what everyone else is doing, or says they're doing.