its not that i do not love my bf. its just my ex bf was my kind of guy. my new bf is very sweet n loves me a lot but he is not able to be THE GUY for me n that is the reason i am not able to give him my 100% as i am not sure if i want to be with him. but i do not want to hurt him as he is a very nice guy n loves me a lot............ maybe i love him too but m not able to realise.......................... i am so confused......... plz help!!!!!!!!
p.s any advice on how to get over my ex..
2007-09-08 13:05:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh god i didnt know other people felt that too! i thought only i was abnormal.. first of all thanx for making me feel normal again...
secondly... i got over it... i gave myself some time... i mean i totally understand what ur going thru... and its such a wierd feeling thats constantly there and u cant fight it... just give urself some time... see the things in him that u luv about him...
and keep one thing in mind... ur probably better off marrying a guy who loves u... than marrying a guy who u luv but he doesnt luv u back...
the fact that u do not want to hurt this guy is proof that u luv him... if nothing works... just distance urself from that guy for a few days... dont break up.. just create a bit of distance... when ur away from him u'll realise his worth n u'll miss him... then u will realize how much u luv him... n then u can get back to him with all the love u have for him...
as for getting over ur ex... i think starting a new relationship b4 getting over ur past one was a mistake in itself... but still things are not that bad... u can get over it... just give ur self some time... and dont let guilt come in ur feelings... its normal to feel what ur feeling .... all i can say is just give it some time...
just keep in mind that u dont always get what u want! and its surprising sometimes that what u get is not what u want but still is pretty damn good and worth all the effort!
2007-09-08 13:20:48 · answer #1 · answered by Proud 2 b Indian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it ! your a girl that's what girls do .Right this is what you have to do string him along for as long as it takes you to find another man then send him a text saying " i'm sorry but it's not you it's me ,i just want to have some time being single for a while. " But if he's well hung and can smash it in hard as well that should buy him a month or two.
2007-09-08 22:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dear
dont worry u will be able to get over ur ex....try to concentrate on the best about ur new bf....nad give yourself some time...its ok u would need some time to give ur 100% to ur new one...and if u say he is good he would understand it perfectly...my new one did!!! so dont worry...dont ponder over it a lot its natural and normal...tc n happy life ahead
2007-09-10 01:24:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if really like this guy kiss him alot and talk 2 him and hang out more so u can get over your ex and know that u already have a man and sooner or later you will notice that u got over your ex..,.
2007-09-09 00:59:12 · answer #4 · answered by MillerBabe15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got to let him know what's up. Being straight up with him now will hurt way less than him not knowing the truth and thinking something else is going on.
2007-09-08 20:20:50 · answer #5 · answered by Line Straddler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first don't feel bad if you break up with your current boyfriend, explain to him why and he'll understand. go with your gut and always trust your instinct. studies say that your first thought is almost always right. second, if you can't get over your old boyfrind (i don't like the word ex) than maybe it's because they were the right guy for you. ask them about it. finally, don't go to people like me for help, ask God, he always has the best answer
2007-09-08 23:14:20 · answer #6 · answered by Janet K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your new bf is a nice guy and sincerely loves you,
please
do not compare with your old bf
without any hesitation
give him 100% pure love
2007-09-08 20:28:24 · answer #7 · answered by babu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should find out a good boy and marry him then love him. It is better to your feature
2007-09-08 21:52:36 · answer #8 · answered by kabduk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to show ur love.
2007-09-12 08:39:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I worry, Kid. Let there be a happy ending.
2007-09-09 06:48:43 · answer #10 · answered by sexy grandmother 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋