Has anyone left a cheating, lying spouse that they loved to the bone and would die for- if you did how did you finially decide to leave and how has that decision affected you?
2007-09-08 13:19:25 · 6 answers · asked by Chava 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
After I found out what my ex was up to I told her to pack her bags and leave, although I was hurt for a while I soon got over it and realized I can't love a person that I cannot trust...I am totally happy now and feel rejuvenated and free...I feel that I can focus on myself and give my children the attention they deserve.
2007-09-08 13:29:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I kicked out my lying cheating spouse and 2 weeks later asked him to come back. He told me he was already in love with another girl, she's 22 and he's 38. This almost killed me, and it still hurts everyday. He just took our 2 year old boy to meet her, and it makes me sick to even think about. She gets to play mommy with my child, ick.
It has been now 4 months, and it hurts less and less everyday, but it still hurts alot. I still love the man and wish things were different, I cursed God everyday that such a bastard could find love so easily and yet I am stuck with nothing. But I found it's all about self respect and finding that core strength within yourself that can survive all the hurt.
Without our pride and self respect we will remain doormats forever.
2007-09-08 21:54:23 · answer #2 · answered by princessin_bluejeans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did leave but for me it was really hard it took a long time for me to get over and trust again I think I was looking for the bad in every man i met but I lived on my own for a while and was able to be a lot choosier with the men i dated and finely found someone good it takes time but it does get better.
2007-09-08 22:29:54 · answer #3 · answered by Dede 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I left. Yes, it's better - but it took time. I realised I had lost my self-respect and that things would never get better with him. I wanted to be HAPPY and I am now, very much. Good luck..
2007-09-11 19:28:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Sometimes the one you love is bad
for you. Then it's time to leave.
You DO get over it.
You DO move on and find someone better.
It DOES take time.. and it's worth it.
2007-09-08 20:41:36 · answer #5 · answered by Irv S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mine wasn't lying or cheating, he was just beating the crap out of me on a regular basis..... i left 2 years ago and it's been hard at times but well worth it.....
2007-09-08 20:55:36 · answer #6 · answered by Queen Bee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋