Family & Relationships - 8 September 2007

My sister is a lesbian and she recently married her gf and my mom is ooposed to the hole thing and she told me I can't go to the wedding or she would kick me out of the house and never talk to me again. But I am turning 18 next week and I didnt think she was serioos and I support my sister so I went to her wedding and when I got home all my stuff was in the driveway. I haven't spoken to my mom or dad since then but tmorrow is her birthday should I call her?

2007-09-08 19:16:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband and I have been together as a couple for 7 years, married for 5 with two small children. My MIL and SIL are STILL gossiping about me and making hurtful comments to and about me. Worst of all, they constantly compare our children to the SIL's children - in front of the kids! How do I handle this?

We've tried confronting them nicely - I've even gotten steaming mad a few times. Nothing changes. The holidays are coming up - I'm already dreading it. The drama..

2007-09-08 19:15:42 · 6 answers · asked by Magaroni 5 in Family

ok so im 12 and im having boy problems,last year when i switched into honors classes in 6th grade i met him,he always flirted with me and always tried sitting next to me,we r in totally different cliques hes a popular im a rocker, he even tried making me jealous by asking this semi popular girl it worked,now the only time i see him is in the hall way and i smile like a big dork,and i cant go on dates till im sixteen my moms so mean shes like" i dont want to take people idk places, when ur able to drive you can" and everyone else in my school can even the little six graders, what do i do?

2007-09-08 19:14:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I treated my family to Popeye's for lunch, & my cousin ate my food & treated me like crap in FRONT of my face, WHILE eating MY food that "I" paid for. She said I'm a worthless nobody. So, later on in the day her dad (my uncle) invited me to spend the weekend. I said no. He said, "Why?" I sarcastically said, "Your daughter is gonna make me hurt her." & he said, "& U WILL GO STRAIGHT TO JAIL!" I said, "I was just joking." & he said, "I was joking, too! But come & spend the weekend." When I drove off, my brother said, "He wasn't joking. He was serious." I didn't even ask for his input. & then he said my uncle was talking DRUNK talk by inviting me to spend the weekend since he's an alcoholic. In my town, we jokingly say we're gonna hurt other people when we don't mean it when they do something foolish. I'm not violent & I fear the consequences of violence. But my cousin got into a fight with a neighbor & her dad didn't press charges, even though my cousin was like14 at the time.

2007-09-08 19:11:50 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

to want to protect someone even if you don't know them? i go to bed and sometimes and get dreams of me helping people but when take up for someone people call me loser or stupid. i think i'm wired because i don't like to cus, or smoke, or drink and i don't like words that disrespect people. i heared someone talking about " talking to some of the hoes around here" after i heared that and it made me so mad. i think i'm wired do you think so

2007-09-08 19:02:13 · 3 answers · asked by g.f. 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi. Okay so my period was due this past tuesday. It never came. No signs of it comming either. I usually can tell bc about 4 days b4 my breasts start to hurt, this didnt happen. I had sex a little bit ago i think it was on like day 13 er 14 of my cycle. We didnt use condoms but he pulled out. (i know it was stupid and im not on the pill). The past week ive been having a little cramping in my lower abdomen (its gone now), been very tired latley, and have been having little pains in my back. I never cramp b4 a period. Ive taken a couple preg tests (from the dollar store) and i bought the first response one but took it in the day time they all came up neg. I think i took 5 (most dollar ones). I am still having no signs of a period, not even spotting. I never have missed a period. WHat is wrong??????

2007-09-08 18:59:34 · 18 answers · asked by Stephanie 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-08 18:59:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

reasons to take care of age old parents

2007-09-08 18:58:38 · 8 answers · asked by bianca d 1 in Family

I've always had this plan that I wanted to have be a young mother simply because my mother had me at a decently young age (21 to be exact) and I wouldn't have had it any other way. I see that it was a growing process for the both of us and right now as she's heading out of her "midlife crisis" I'm so glad it didn't happen when I was a kid or when I was in high school. I'm turning 22 this February and I feel ready to settle down and start a family. But my family is telling me that it is nearly impossible for me to do that straight out of college. That I need to have myself "established" and "secure."

My boyfriend and I have talked seriously about getting married and having kids "someday" but I haven't really specified when to him. How should I go about telling him or should that even be a concern of mine? Am I an idiot for wanting this?

2007-09-08 18:55:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've had a long term realtionship its been for 2 years and 2 months we had long distance realtionship and he left his family back and came down to be with me .... But now its diffrent ... Everytime it seems like he doesnt care what I say ....He Tells Me He Loves Me And Sometimes Does Nice Things To Me... But His not an undersantding person... he get annoyed when i cry.... and he hurts me TOO much .... Yet I Love Him To Death ... What Can I Do To Forget Him???? Please Help!!!

2007-09-08 18:55:15 · 5 answers · asked by ♥Me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I needed to borrow the rent from my sis who stays with me 566,now i had already told her prior about 2weeks b4 it was due she said fine! Now she cashed her check andwas squaking cuzz she says now i dont have any money left, I said dont worry i get paid in 2 mored days i will at least give u 1/2 back she still fussed but said take it and pay the rent! So I left the envelope on the dresser,when i woke up the money was 60 short! Now my aunt lives with me also. Now i didnt wanna accuse noone I figured we could all talk about it! My sis did not want to come in on the meeting,she left the house 2 days ago and hasnt come back yet! do you think she is guilty and why. and did she have the right to take the money?!?!

2007-09-08 18:53:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I don't understand why woman are materialistic. A guy can drive a nice car that their dad both them, but a guy wanting a girl who is attractive are said to be looking at the outer beauty but not the inner beauty. Both sexes can be superficial. But guys prefering attractive women means they prefer a woman who can produce healthy offspring, right? So girls who want materials, such as a fancy car, why?

2007-09-08 18:49:34 · 18 answers · asked by Peter P 2 in Singles & Dating

but he let his friend say very insulting things to me and laughed and it hurt my feelings...I'm seriously thinking about breakoing up with him.. but idk what to do?

2007-09-08 18:44:18 · 11 answers · asked by omg rain is wet 2 in Singles & Dating

Recently my aunt passed away unexpectedly, I am trying to finad any good "memorial" music to fill an hour please help!
Also it would be preferred to be anything but heavy metal or hard core rock n roll. Thanx.

2007-09-08 18:40:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

There was a guy I was seeing for a couple of months and last night stopped by his place and saw him in bed with another woman. Instead of asking questions and arguing, I just left right away, for I was hurt. I sent him an e-mail telling him how I felt (I'm sure he could have cared less, but I felt better expressing myself). I also stated that maybe I should e-mail the women on the site to warn them what type of guy he really is. I wasn't serious on this, just was angry. He e-mailed me back saying he could get me for slander and sue me. What does he mean by that? And even if I was serious, how could he even do that? And why would he get so defensive?

2007-09-08 18:39:45 · 9 answers · asked by kelly825782003 1 in Singles & Dating

Is this Why women are always cold because now they are farther from the Sun also is this why Im always hot and do i have an excuse to walk around my apartment in my underware?

2007-09-08 18:38:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Traditionally monogamy has always had wider acceptance. But in today's times everybody seeks out variety which simply put means indivduals are seeking different things (ie., romance, date, sex, chat)

2007-09-08 18:36:24 · 6 answers · asked by Rahul™ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so theres this boy i really like and it was pretty obvious he liked me too...he always smiled and satred at me & stuff...so i messeged him on myspace asking for the eng hw ..i figured it would be a way for me to talk to him beacuse hes never spoken to me..but he read the messege and never answerd me...so this means he doesnt like me after all?

2007-09-08 18:36:00 · 1 answers · asked by lex 1 in Singles & Dating

I have 3 sisters (1 older, 1 younger, 1 my identical twin) & my parents let my older and younger sisters have their own rooms but make my twin & me share!!! We can't stand each other and always have these huge fights about touching each others' stuff. My older sister and my twin are really close and would love sharing a room but my parents won't let them do it because they think 'it would cause problems' even though my twin & I already have major issues with each other. They also think that because we're twins we'll be able to work anything out, BUT WE CAN'T. What should I do???!!!

2007-09-08 18:29:49 · 10 answers · asked by Kaylie 2 in Family

i know a guy but we are not frds,we met 2nd time that day when we drink toghter but i got drunk too much and fell on the floor(but i remember everything wat happened).i saw him with half closed eyes that he was taking care of me ,and i was vomitting but he was looking after me ,i was wild so i was kissing him and hugging him but he didn't take any advantage of me.he just put me on bed and left.Then we met and talked after next 2weeks and he told me wat happened that day.he said i didn't misuse u but i was losing my control and couln't sleep that nite.but guys he always wanted to sleep with me but i m immpressed coz he didn't do anything that nite.so wat kind of guy is that?they usually take advantage in such situation or not?

2007-09-08 18:26:25 · 2 answers · asked by mandy 1 in Singles & Dating

So me and my cousin have been talking for a while now and we know we want to get together sometime. Eh, just a date for starters and see where it goes. I dont care that shes my cousin (my dads brothers sons daughtor=2ndcousin. her dad is my 1st). Of course we do worry about what the family may think so when we do, we'll just keep it on the downlow. I've done some homework on this and I know "don't have sex, babies may be mutated", a small chance with 2nd cousins. Anyway, I want to know what you all think. Oh, no we havent kissed, we've just flirted together. Im 24 and shes 18. and I dont care how many of you say EWWW, but it would be nice to see how many do.

2007-09-08 18:24:38 · 56 answers · asked by madkoopa 1 in Friends

I am tutoring a sweet but somewhat slow kid in math. I got the job through a teacher’s recommendation and Billy has already improved a whole grade. Others before me were not so successful, but Billy and I have found the right approach.

But now that we are making progress and Billy’s dad is contemplating to have me help in other subjects too, he asks a lot of questions about me. He is however very judgmental and prejudiced. I don't doubt, that he’ll fire me, if I tell him that I am a minor living without parents in a somewhat unsavory neighborhood and paying my own bills.

I don’t want to loose this job, not only because Billy’s father pays handsomely. If he knew my background he would also make a ruckus at school about my tutoring and being a bad influence. He’ll probably scare off some of my other students. Also, Billy will certainly fall behind again, and he worked so hard.

So should I invent a nice average family life for myself or tell it like it is, no matter the consequences?

2007-09-08 18:24:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If I was ur girlfriend by the way i am17 year old 5'7'' talk blonde with a cute body!!
1.) How many times a day would you kiss me?
2.) Would you hold me?
3.)Would you take me places?
4.) Would you lie to me?
5.) If I was sick what would you do?
6.) Would you leave me for one of my friends?
7.)Would you care about what I wore when we go out?
8.) Would you hang out with me AND my friends?
9.) If your friend tried to get with me what would you do?
10.) Want to spend the night with me?
11.) Would we just chill together?
12.)If you had an empty house would you call me to come over?

2007-09-08 18:21:59 · 5 answers · asked by Blonde_Chick_17 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 18, my whole life i asked 7 girls out. all of em said NO. I'm starting to think i can't ever get a girlfriend. sh#$, i never even kissed yet.

2007-09-08 18:19:22 · 23 answers · asked by hahaiwon 2 in Singles & Dating

My Boyriend and i are going to be moving in together after we get engaged, my parents are VERY against it, but what is the best way of telling them with them hating us totally? We will be getting married 10 months after moving in together.

2007-09-08 18:16:03 · 4 answers · asked by sjmblondie 1 in Family

here is the deal, we were both virgins. i was his first everything pretty much. before him, i've had a long term relationship (1 1/2), but it wasn't that physical (only making out and such). after i ended that relationship, we startedgoing out since the end of senior year in high school, and it's our second year in college now. we've always messed around, did everything except sex and last week, we both had sex..he's 19, i'm 18 now. but he doesn't want to risk having sex anymore because of having a baby...i completely understand and i am not pressuring him or anything, but is it wrong for me to want it? am i just being selfish or is sex not really necessary if you truly love the person?

also, we know about birthcontrol, condoms and all that stuff.
our first time was surprisingly good...he lasted pretty long too.
it's strictly...about the slight chance of having a kid.

any advice?

2007-09-08 18:12:06 · 8 answers · asked by luckystar21 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I were in a heated argument and he started doing all of these wrestling moves on me. He had me in a headlock and he put all of his weight on me. I was trying to fight back, but he wouldn't let me go until I surrendered. Thus... when I ended up with a sprained knee he claims it was my fault! To make matters worse... he kept grabbing my wrists and not letting me go until I "calmed down". When I tried to leave the room he would block the door and wouldn't let me leave. For the first time in my life I'm questioning what I should do??? I have a new baby and a 9 year old and I'm not working. I have no checking or savings account... no car, no license. He's never been physical like this with me before... but what bothers me is that because he never "hit" me, he doesn't see it as abuse. Which really burns me up!!! I'm in a knee brace and crutches... but he say's it was my fault because of the way I was twisting when he was holding me down.... HELP!

2007-09-08 18:11:19 · 45 answers · asked by writeright 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i recently broke up with this girl i had been dating over the summer. actualy, she broke up with me. before summer ended, i had heard shocking news that she was moving away for a month. we both promised to keep in touch. one day i called her and instead of her answering, some guy answered the phone. he said he was her boyfriend. i soon called her back to confirm what i had heard. she said she was sorry, but she didnt think we could continue our relationship. i was hurt. it still hurts to this day.

even though i think shes a *****, i cant stop thinking about her. she seems to pop into my head at the worst of times. i think im still in love with her. is this normal? or am i just crazy?

2007-09-08 18:08:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have no choice but to live with her becasue my parents aren't here any more. she is 6 mnths pregnant and acts like she is the only one who has ever been pregant. she makes my brother do all of the work and she makes him buy everything for her and it takes him for ever to pay off.

today i was really sick and i am 11 so i dont know how to tak medicne and i was asking her but she was watching tv and didnt reply. and then after that she went to sleep. i still feel really sick.
she ignores me all the time

what should i do?

2007-09-08 18:08:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i can choose love but cant family and i cant choose my friends so does that make since

2007-09-08 18:06:50 · 4 answers · asked by (Tessa) 1 in Family