i can choose love but cant family and i cant choose my friends so does that make since
2007-09-08 18:06:50 · 4 answers · asked by (Tessa) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sounds like you have some issues here about choices - are you saying you're not able to choose your friends? And are you having some issues with your family?
Your question is not clear, but if I were to guess I'd say you're young and you're not happy with being told who you can have for friends. If this is the case, you should know that your family loves you and they are probably only trying to protect you from people that they feel may harm you in some way.
You are right about not being able to choose your family. That is, the family you are born into on this earth. That works both ways, by the way. And you are right, love is a choice. Do you know that God loves you and that He works all things according to His will? See the following verses:
"I love those who love me, and those who seek me find me." (Proverbs 8:17)
"This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another." (1 John 4:9-11)
"In him we were also chosen, having been predestined according to the plan of him who works out everything in conformity with the purpose of his will," (Ephesians 1:11)
You can chose to be a part of God's family by responding to God's invitation. For family relationship and spiritual help/guidance see the following links:
http://www.cbn.com/spirituallife/CBNTeachingSheets/Parent_Child_Relations.aspx
http://www.harvest.org/knowgod/index.php/3.html
I hope you find all of this info helpful. May God bless you as you deal with the all the choices in your life.
2007-09-12 11:05:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Despite your missepelling, it doesn't. You can choose love or friends, but you can't choose your family. That makes sense, and it's perhaps, what you were trying to say.
2007-09-09 01:15:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes , it does.You love your family but want a perfect love also
2013-11-10 08:06:07 · answer #3 · answered by Ann 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it good even though it's been 7 years so this was in what, 2007.
2014-04-13 21:38:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋