I met a girl that was at the time in a relationship. We were attracted to each other and we really clicked and feelings developed. Her boyfriend left for college and said that they should go on a break. However, he still calls her a lot, and acts as if they were still together. She tells me she no longer feels the same towards him. She started telling me how controlling he was and that she is done with that. The boyfriend saw some pictures of her and me hanging out and was furious. She finally told him that she doesn't feel the same anymore but he just doesn't seem to get it. He still constantly calls her and tries to sweet talk her back. She keeps trying to tell him but he just doesn't seem to get it. I really feel that I am really responsible for a lot of this. I am guilty but at the same time I think she deserves better. I tell her end it with him because there is not much she can do if she doesn't feel it anymore. What should she do?
2007-09-08 20:38:32 · 3 answers · asked by Edmond K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Obviously, what she should do is dump this guy. The odds of that relationship working out after her ex-boyfriend started college is extremely small.
But the problem is she still has this weird obligation to remain in touch with him, and during the conversations he is still controlling.
If she can grow up and move on, then that sound great for you. But the question is if she is capable of that right now.
2007-09-08 20:44:31 · answer #1 · answered by ZCT 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She needs to
STOP TALKING TO HIM. PERIOD
This is a good time, as he is away at
school. No e-mails, ims, or phone calls.
It's not your fault at all. But if she doesn't
stop communicating with him It won't end.
Then she won't be the one.
2007-09-08 21:05:23 · answer #2 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she can like whom she considered
2007-09-08 20:44:51 · answer #3 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋