Family & Relationships - 11 September 2007

Or do you claim that they don't have the true religion and are therefore inferior?

2007-09-11 02:10:12 · 3 answers · asked by JiveMan 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know this guy, and i really like him. but want to be his friend how can i get him interest in me? what are good topics and tips i can use?

2007-09-11 02:08:36 · 18 answers · asked by Jamie T 4 in Friends

The reason i feel that i am still a V is because i hate my body and i dont trust men at all! I have had some good boyfriends and bad ones 2 but i just cant seem to give them that part of me. all my friends think i am just scared but there has to be something other then fear thats makeing me pull back...

2007-09-11 02:07:52 · 11 answers · asked by sweetme3331 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a male friend who has not had a girlfriend in a really long time. He has wanted a relationship for the longest time now. He recently met a girl on match.com. He has gone out on dates with her and slept over at her house but he stated nothing has happened yet. When we ask him about her he says she is everything he wants but he doesn't know if he likes her? He doesn't even talk about her physical description either? The only thing he says is that she is in good shape? He rarely talks about her? What could be the problem?

2007-09-11 02:05:06 · 12 answers · asked by Jenn 2 in Singles & Dating

I am the type of gal that does not "NEED" to be taken care of..... but I must admit I sure like the idea of "my guy" being able to take care of me. For istance.... my car dies on the side of the road.... he comes and rescues me or something frightens me.... he there to "hold" me in his arms. Such a nice thought. Do you want your guy or gal to be able and willing to take care of you although you might not necessarily "need" to be taken care of?

2007-09-11 02:04:26 · 24 answers · asked by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4 in Singles & Dating

I had been in an abusive relationship for eight years and finally got out but I am realizing not only did it take a toll on me it took a toll on my daughter. My daughter is six years old and she doesn't act like other children. Right now my ex-husband and I share joint custody. When it's time to go to her dad's house she doesn't want to because she says he always questions her about me and my new life and she says it makes her sick. It's been really hard on the both of us since she was a child all she heard was the arguing the pushing and shoving but now I feel as though it may be too late to reverse the cycle. I want her to be happy but now it's like what can I do. I try to do a lot of activities with her just one on one that we missed out on but its like I'm not reaching her. She just rather be alone, she doesn't like other children but the worst thing is people dont seem to like her and it hurts me. I can't talk to her she has just gotten so mean what should I do?

2007-09-11 02:00:15 · 7 answers · asked by t-t-n1979 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

One time when we were off he dated and slept wiht someone else and threw it in my face. Him and her tried to remain friends but everytime I found out, and him and I were working things out I would break up with him.
He tells me now he doesn't want anything to do with her. He wishes he never met her. I threw her up in his face alot and he was getting sick of it.
He Told me if I cant trust him we shouldnt try. But I love him so much he is my best friend.
I take my insecurities to him - all my "what if" and he gets so irritated.
I am getting on his nerves asking questions if he has talked to her, etc etc.
Why can't I stop? He told me if it does not stop he is leaving.

2007-09-11 01:57:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

left me alone in a new state at 16, chasing a man, never attended my 3 graduations, never came to my babyshower, let other family members kick me out her house because my boyfriend yelled at them for yelling at me, i told her i want to go finish school and want to save, she let me use her car to go to school, then took it when she found i gave my cousin a ride too, to the same school, who lived on my block and never asked for gas, when she got mad that i wouldnt charge family for a ride, she began to charge me for me, my daughter, my fiance and my dog to sleep in the empty room where her cat slept, when we couldnt afford it, she kicked us all out, she lied and destroyed my name with my fam to make it seem like she only asked for a little bit and we refused. she always favors my sister and all her kids but will charge me for my daughter to come over her house. she failed a drug test and lost her job and told me i can just pay her to keep my daughter for the hour she comes after school.

2007-09-11 01:57:04 · 9 answers · asked by badbitty101 2 in Family

Our neighbor's son is 13 and is from the Domincan Republic and has been here for approx. 10yrs.
Another neighbor overheard an argument with his mom who is also Domincan, and the American husband, something to the fact that he was not going to jail because of them. It is obvious to all that he married her to get her here in the US. Apparently the son, does not have a "green" card, but yet has been living here and attending school. The young boy tells us that he can't go back to his country because they won't let him back. He usually goes every yr. to visit his sister's, aunts, family.
Could that be true? How illegal is this?
OH, get this, his mom ask me if my brother, who is single, would be interested in marrying her sister so that she can come to America!!! Of course they would pay lots of $ to do this.
I laughed so hard that I almost peed myself.

2007-09-11 01:54:40 · 3 answers · asked by Mom of 2 great boys 7 in Family

We live in a quiet suburban area and some of her friends have knocked recently and asked if she can go out with them. I have let her twice. Each time she has taken her a mobile phone and stayed with friends. What are your opinions on this? She is very mature and I think she is ready.

2007-09-11 01:51:12 · 22 answers · asked by dogs3kids2hubby1 4 in Family

I need help to figure out how My fiancee will be able to come to us to live after we get married.
My fiancee is from Morocco. He does not live there right now. He lives in Italy (where we met). We decided we want to get married in morocco with his family. I think I know all the paper work I need and maybe his.. Still not to sure. If you know please let me know. I would love to know how to find a islamic church or priest abdoul (whatever it is called. not to sure on that yet) to marry us. I want to try to set this up ahead of time. We are going to marry in casablanca. After we are married. How do I get my new husband back to the states with me? Is there anyway he can come right away? If anyone know the answers to any of these questions please inform me. Thanks for all the help you give me.. May God be with us all.

2007-09-11 01:50:39 · 5 answers · asked by medamouhkam 2 in Weddings

My wife has a tendancy to tell half truths and it pisses me off. She came home Friday and said she had some cosmetic injections done. This was a total surprise to me, I had spoken to her earlier in the day and nothing was said, not a word was mentioned the whole week before. Anyway, she comes in and with a smile said I had injections... I said OK, what did you have done? Her reply was, I had my laugh lines filled and thats it, and for around $330.00 bucks. I was ok with it and we had a great weekend, I asked how she was feeling and of course the weekend went fine. Last night I was picking up and found the receipt for her Dr.s Visit... $1100.00.. I was blown away. WTF, Why cant she ever tell me the WHOLE truth.... She has a pattern of doing this and It's beginning to build a untrusting feeling within me. I'm not pissed that she did this without talking to me about it, just pissed that she can't tell the truth. Am I wrong for feeling like this. BTW, 20 years married.

2007-09-11 01:44:05 · 37 answers · asked by Pilot 202 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He plays xbox and talks with his buds. I miss my son. His dad and I try to get him to "come on down", but he seems happy to scowl around and stay away from us. Uh, recently I found some porn under his mattress when I was changing linens. I threw em away and did not say anything to him.

2007-09-11 01:41:22 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hi im from South Afrika 19 White Female.

Im not That overweight and not that skinny im actually chubby. I get alot of complements that im very pretty and beautiful its just my figure. I was born like this and i really have personality im a down to earth person like to laugh and really have fun. But why dont guys see me and always see skinny girls. Ive been hurt alot because i have a soft heart. Do i need to become a B*T*H?

2007-09-11 01:39:44 · 20 answers · asked by Bokkie ogies 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband bought me a Nintendo hand held console for my 30TH birthday. I had been hinting for months that i wanted a nice ring i had seen in a jewelers. I smiled and said thank you when he gave me the nintendo but I dont play computer games of any sort and it's not really my thing. So i sold it on ebay. My husband was a bit upset when i told him.
Do you think i was right?

2007-09-11 01:35:07 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i gave my husband the ultimatum me or his online affair
i left he came after me and chose me but how do i get past that he has done this to us
my trust every time i hear him type on his computer i think hes talking to her
i new his password until all this has happened but now since last night he changed it all i want is for my trust to be true
and his for me should i tell him to get a new email address cos she sends him emails all the time i asked him how anxious he was to talk to her and he said a 6 out of ten
i am gonna change his pass word so that only i no it is that gonna help he has agreed to this because he wants to save our marriage to i told him its gonna take time for me to get my head around this but i dont think he aknowledges how much he has hurt me i dont have any one to talk to about this so plese help should i forget it has ever happened or try and deal with the fact he has feelings for another woman

2007-09-11 01:31:43 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Did you ever regret your past by meeting me?
Do you wish you could turn back the clock so you would never see, the tradegy of meeting your match and then never being unable to unlatch. Never being or having your mind set free. Only to cause more pain and suffering if tried to let be, only to find happiness when wishing to love even if never have success. And then one day you both finally confess your true love now so perfect, once a mess.

2007-09-11 01:28:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he wants his son to be bestman in wedding, but son has be so rude and mean to me i have forgave him for alot but evertime i do he does something else. found out he has taken money out of my house now i dont want any thing to do with son please help

2007-09-11 01:27:28 · 15 answers · asked by kay 1 in Weddings

I am 27 years old and because I spent all the money on my credit card for what she says was not needed. I reduced my bill by $100 this month. I say I am progressing but she is so mad she will not talk to me ever again. She will not let me borrow 1 cent to if I am short 1 cent. Do I call debt fixers to help or I am just run away to get attention?

2007-09-11 01:24:02 · 13 answers · asked by initmador 3 in Family

My husband goes back and forth with me...tells me he loves me one day and the next-he says "I don't like you". I ask to go to counseling and it gets ignored. I get called names like stupid b**** and when I try and fight back, I am the bad guy. I have to scream to make myself heard because he is always talking over me.
I have a 1 1/2 year old son and I really am feeling like divorce may be the best way to go, and to do it now while my son is young.
I am so hurt and angry though-how do I know I am thinking clearly? Please help and please don't be rude, today is not the day for it.

2007-09-11 01:23:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if your child went missing would you wash the last thing that they had held ie a teddy. even if it was covered in dribble and sun tan lotion.
kate mccann states that the teddy was was in bed with maddy when they left her, but on finding her missing the teddy was on a shelf that the toddler could not of reached so whoever took her placed it there! (that alone is hard to believe). if what she says is true why wash it as it may have held DNA clues of the abductor.
i am a father and just cannot understand why she would want to erase the scent of maddy.

2007-09-11 01:21:14 · 46 answers · asked by dave c 3 in Family

2007-09-11 01:18:28 · 10 answers · asked by mad&sad 2 in Friends

she done us a favour when we were on holiday,she worked in the caravan park in the shop,she picked up a few things from town for us and we paid her well.she had his mobile number to let us know when shed got our stuff.weve been home a month now and she rang him last week asking some question about a toy we had given to her little girl(well thats what he says she rang for)and he asked what work she was doing now the season is over,she said shed have to claim dole as there is no work and he said hed send her 20 pounds,he then asked me if i thought that was ok and i said well no not really,he said well she did do us a favour and i said we paid her for that,but said for him to do what he thinks is right.Hes said nothing and when i ask if hes sent it he said no not yet,but i think he probably has.Usually i do all the posting of letters i joke im like his p.a. so i find this suspicious.shes only in her twenties,im older.

2007-09-11 01:15:37 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I always thought that marriage was for Betty propers, but now that i have found love i am considering it. but im also afraid it will kill our romance, and what if i meet another guy?

2007-09-11 00:59:44 · 17 answers · asked by readergrl 2 in Weddings

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2007-09-11 00:56:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this boy he lliked me we use to be eneimes in 4th grade and we like each other we went out for a month and he actually relized that i was the girl from 4th grade .hesays he don't know wants to be with me since we hated each other unless i GIVE IT UP. WHAT SHOULD DO STAY WITH HIM OR GO BACK TO THE SEA!

2007-09-11 00:51:40 · 23 answers · asked by SPONTANEOUS SYDNEY 2 in Singles & Dating

My mother told me that she is still married to my father for the financial security for my brother and I. She has been miserable with him for all of my 22 years and says she has to stay married to him because my brother and I "wouldn't know how to live."

Despite the fact that she made her own bed, is depressed and not taking her meds, and has been unfaithful to my father (I caught her cheating when I was 18, my brother recently discovered she is talking to her ex-husband again), I still feel enormous guilt, regardless of the fact that it is illogical.

How can I overcome my guilt? How can I ease my brother's guilt? He is only 14 and has enough problems. It just kills me to think that he feels as I do. I have an enormous weight on my shoulders.

Is her behavior normal or abusive?

2007-09-11 00:51:22 · 11 answers · asked by Surf Forever 5 in Family

im 21and i have been dating my gf for over a year now and everything is great, but when we first started dating i was like 30 pounds over weight. well sence than i have lost all the weight and gained a lot more muscle, needless to say for the first time in my life other women are comming on to me and liking me more. my gf is not the prettyest girl in the world she is just average but its her personality i love so much, well for the past few weeks i have been having strong feelings for other girls, not emotional feelings but sexual feeling, i dont want to date them just do them. But i know if this were to happen it would destroy my current relationship and i dont want that. and with these othere girls comming on to me its making this thing a whole lot harder. Should i worry or what should i do????

2007-09-11 00:28:10 · 18 answers · asked by joshua d 3 in Singles & Dating

I m Rekha my hubby's name is Varun and I love Amit who is married with Meena I have 2 kids i m 39 and Amit is 52 he also hv 2 kids my daughter in 10 & son in 7 Amit's son will marry in Dec 2007 and IInd son is doing engg. I am working salary only 8000 my husband do not do anything and not earning a single penny i do all househld exp. in my 8000 salary ( my marriage date is Jan 1988) In 1996 when i worked in amit's factory we both fall in love So, we decided that i will resign from amit's factory b'coz we want to be personal relation with each other then official work is going held on so we decided otherwise personal relation or official relation i have change my job since 96 to till we r frnds i m getting now 8000 & amit is giving me per mnth 2500 we usually on telphone daily 2-3 hrs & meet after 2-3 days normally he help me everytime when I will be in prblm. daily we talk on telephone 2-3 hrs from last 12 yrs we love each other so much Is our relation right or wrong ?

2007-09-11 00:25:02 · 24 answers · asked by indian 1 in Marriage & Divorce

cause my bro keep sayin watch youll see a big change at 15 and so do all my friends

2007-09-11 00:18:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships