The reason i feel that i am still a V is because i hate my body and i dont trust men at all! I have had some good boyfriends and bad ones 2 but i just cant seem to give them that part of me. all my friends think i am just scared but there has to be something other then fear thats makeing me pull back...
2007-09-11 02:07:52 · 11 answers · asked by sweetme3331 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is nothing wrong with waiting. i agree it can't be just your fear of someone seeing you naked, but this is a HUGE decision so if you're smart enough to wait until you're absolutely sure I say congrats to you! Don't be pressured by anyone or your age into doing something you'll regret. Just wait until you're sure it's what you want and for the right reasons.
2007-09-11 02:15:01 · answer #1 · answered by camaro829 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with still being a virgin...you obviously haven't met the right guy yet. Making love is a bond like no other, and you need to find out the true reasons why you won't let anyone close to you. If you truly dislike what you look like naked, then,
go on a diet and exercise. It's not that difficult to get into shape. Where there's a will there's a way...and if you are not willing to put in the extra effort then, you don't want it bad enough.
2007-09-11 02:15:19 · answer #2 · answered by Rogue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there something wrong with me? Right there might be the key to your dilemma. Try to think in a different mode, because your question also contains: don't trust, can't seem, bad ones, pull back, fear, scared...find someway to look at yourself in a more positive way. Imagine if we all would ruminate on bad times or experience...come on shake yourself!
2007-09-11 02:18:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be your moral conscience. I think you are right to think that it would be best to learn to love, respect and trust a person enough to marry them and then have sex. If you think that you just do not want to have sex because you think that your body is a problem, I do think that could hold you back. In otherwords, getting naked would make you feel ashamed.
Do you think it is fear? Is it fear of rejection or that it wil not turn out right? If that's true, you should probably get some counseling and it might be good to do it with your fiance should that time come.
2007-09-11 02:13:46 · answer #4 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 21.
However, perhaps you need to get some help over your body issues as that can't be good at your age.
You will find despite your size/shape someone will love to be with you.
2007-09-11 02:14:06 · answer #5 · answered by tayhay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me ask you this:
If you are think of having sex, name me one single form of birth control that can be guarenteed to be 100% effective aginst both STD's AND pregnancy! When you can do that, than you are ready for sex.
You are so young-save yourself for the right time. When you get married.
2007-09-11 02:24:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there is nothing wrong with you. I'm 24 and still a virgin. So?
2007-09-11 03:54:39 · answer #7 · answered by sarah a 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, self respect. Good for you. S A L U T E.
2007-09-11 02:13:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am thinking it is nothing wrong with you, each pearson decide when is the right moment for it. so dont blame yourself it is worst .
every thing gonna be allright
2007-09-11 02:19:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...I respect you for being able to keep yourself for so long. Wait til marriage.
2007-09-11 02:19:10 · answer #10 · answered by Exquisite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋