Hi im from South Afrika 19 White Female.
Im not That overweight and not that skinny im actually chubby. I get alot of complements that im very pretty and beautiful its just my figure. I was born like this and i really have personality im a down to earth person like to laugh and really have fun. But why dont guys see me and always see skinny girls. Ive been hurt alot because i have a soft heart. Do i need to become a B*T*H?
2007-09-11 01:39:44 · 20 answers · asked by Bokkie ogies 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And just why do you assume that acting like a bi tc h will improve your lot? We like slender women because it's an outward sign of good health. Whether we admit it or not, we are most interested in hooking up with as healthy a young woman as we can find because she'll be far more likely to be able to conceive, carry, deliver and raise healthy children. Your remarks suggest you do have a major health issue - in other words, you're obese - and the only person who can correct that problem is YOU! Becoming a bee-atch won't do a darn thing postive for you, but it will certainly get you fewer dates!
2007-09-11 02:10:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Some guys like the skinny girls for two reasons..
1.) it has been crammed down society's throat that skinny is sexy.
2.) a thinner person is looked upon as healthier. It is ingrained into human genes from thousands of years to look for health when looking for a mate.
Now.. personally I like a girl with curves. I don't usually go for skinny girls because I like a girl that I can "play a little rowdy" with, and not worry about hurting her. Not to mention
Keep your head up girl.. you're only 19. you'll find a guy that thinks the sun rises and sets in your eyes.
2007-09-11 01:49:32 · answer #2 · answered by umannjo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i need to point out that skinny women are actually not seen as biologically more fertile. its the rounder curvier women with wide hips and big breasts that give the psychological impression of being able carry on the genes. they also give out stronger pheromones, which is the hormone that signals availability.
heaps of guys prefer rounder women, but have been conditioned to go for the thinner girls. you will find someone, specially once you (and the guys) are a little bit older. i went thru the same thing at school, and now have guys wanting me all the time. its also about confidence, just believe that you are gorgeous and others will too
2007-09-11 01:56:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you are very pretty and I'm sorry you are getting some mean comments.
I've seen some guys that like to date skinny short girls because they are so much smaller than them and they feel like they can protect them or carry them around.
I have a guy friend who is like 5'8 and he only dates girls that are like 5 feet tall and so skinny and small they look like they are 12.
But then I know guys who like bigger girls too so just relax.
If you want to lose weight, then good luck to you. I'm sure you don't need to, and you are just fine the way you are. Maybe you are just being too hard on yourself. And don't change your personality. There are too many mean girls out there.
2007-09-12 02:11:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think of because of the fact united statesa. is curvy/fat, human beings tend to call each and every skinny guy or woman anorexic while somewhat the devour 4000+ energy an afternoon. many times adult males like curves(that's stupid) because of the fact they are shallow and propose. In united statesa., being reported as skinny is extra hurtful than being reported as curvy or fat. skinny does not equivalent anorexic. You wanna understand what anorexic is? 5'9" and fifty 8 lbs; i've got seen it on television. i'm 5'2" and a hundred and five kilos (practically two times the dimensions) that's somewhat curvy to me yet adult males make exciting of me and make contact with me flatchest, toothpick, twig, anorexic, and the record retains occurring!
2016-12-16 17:11:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOME men like skinny girls because they have a better chance of having (or already have) an hour-glass figure.
Other men would prefer to get to know a girl better, rather than just judging them by their cover. You seem to have a good attitude about it, though. Which is plus points for you.
It's better if someone will like you for who you are than for what you look like.
2007-09-11 01:52:29 · answer #6 · answered by zack_falcon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't change a thing about you unless you want to.
Guys look at skinny girls bacause it's considered healthier, more fit, and therefore a better candidate to pass along out genes to. It's a biology thing that cannot be avoided.
But, every guy has their own preferences and types; you just haven't met that guy yet whose heart will melt by looking at you yet is all.
2007-09-11 01:46:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
we don't Always go for the skinny girls. Getting along with them enough to keep a conversation going is good enough by most guys.
But to answer the question bluntly;
Why do women prefer masculine guys in comparison to weak twig looking guys?
I know that question is very vague but it puts it in your perspective.
2007-09-11 01:47:29 · answer #8 · answered by Curious about the World 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Skinny is unhealthy. Be happy with your body and yourself. The guys that like skinny girls don't see the real you.
2007-09-11 01:49:04 · answer #9 · answered by Master Kenobi 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
maybe they are looking for savings assuming skinny persons do not eat much lol
i think this has nothing to do with your shape , may be it is not the right time that's all
2007-09-11 01:50:16 · answer #10 · answered by stranger 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋