left me alone in a new state at 16, chasing a man, never attended my 3 graduations, never came to my babyshower, let other family members kick me out her house because my boyfriend yelled at them for yelling at me, i told her i want to go finish school and want to save, she let me use her car to go to school, then took it when she found i gave my cousin a ride too, to the same school, who lived on my block and never asked for gas, when she got mad that i wouldnt charge family for a ride, she began to charge me for me, my daughter, my fiance and my dog to sleep in the empty room where her cat slept, when we couldnt afford it, she kicked us all out, she lied and destroyed my name with my fam to make it seem like she only asked for a little bit and we refused. she always favors my sister and all her kids but will charge me for my daughter to come over her house. she failed a drug test and lost her job and told me i can just pay her to keep my daughter for the hour she comes after school.
2007-09-11
01:57:04
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i knew i couldnt afford 400 a month for my 9 year old to watch tv at grandmas for 1 hour so i asked my dad to do it and he said of coarse. he knows i am trying to pay for my own wedding and said its the least he can do. i told her, she got mad and the whole family is calling me asking what i did to her. she is telling them that i am a no good daughter and why dont i take care of her but we dont talk, we are very different and if i met her on the street i wouldnt want to befriend her at all. she has a husband and is capable of getting another job and since i have my own family, i cannot take her on as an expense. she lied and told the family that she lost her job because the doctors wont let her work instead of the truth about failing the drug test now they think i am so wrong. what doctor says u cant work cuz of asthma you had all your life. she doesnt want to work, she wants to milk me because i work hard for mine and i am soo sick of this cycle with her. i do fine without her. WTF?
2007-09-11
02:02:33 ·
update #1
my daughter asks me all the time why she cant go to grandmas when her cousins stay for the weekend and why is grandma always mean to me, i can easily answer these quest. but it hurts me to even hear her ask and i refuse to talk badly but her dad is outraged because him and his family have taken care of me for the last 11 years and i think that hurts my mom but she left me and his mom took over. she always calls me ms rightous like that so bad. she was mad because i asked her why does she cheat on her husband that is a good man and provides for her. she says when did you get all rightous, you dont know anything. well i do know i wont cheat on my husband so maybe thats why we waited so long because i couldnt make that promise being so young but i can now and we are getting married.
2007-09-11
02:15:29 ·
update #2