i know this grl whos boyfriend cheats on her like crazy...the guy is friends with my husband and my husband tells me all of their business...He cheats on her so bad that he's afraid to go places bc he doesnt know if hes slept with someone their or not...girls always come up to her and tell her they've slept with him and she fights them but stays with him...they are supposed to get married but are kind of seperated(she moved out on him but they are still dating) but now he lives with a female roomate who he is sleeping with plus hes sleeping with the woman upstairs, and his girlfriend has no idea...i feel bad for her she is too blind to see what is going on...i want to say something but i dnt kno her like that and i dnt want to ruin my husbands relationship with his friend...but that is nasty...what should i do?????
2007-09-11 07:27:44 · 17 answers · asked by CoCoBrown 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well, would you want someone to tell you that information? i personally will not get involved because that leads to a whole lot of he say she say,and just because you say something doesn't mean she is gonna leave him alone. if girls have already approached her and told her that, then she has some idea. i think you should just stand back, and when the chips do fall, they won't be able to put your name anywhere in it.
2007-09-11 07:33:21 · answer #1 · answered by mizzjaxn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it. People like her won't listen to anything you have to say. You will end up ruining your husband's relationship with his friend and come out on the bad end. It is nasty but not your place to get involved.
2007-09-11 16:34:20 · answer #2 · answered by rcButterfly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her. How would you feel if the tables were turned and you were in her position. Why would your husband want to be friends with a man who degrades women like that? if my hiusband had a friend like that, i wouldnt want him hanging around him, and he certainly wouldnt be welcome in my home or life. the guy sounds like a d*ck. your views and moral standards should mean more to you and your husband than some guy's feelings. you need to tell her, or your husband does. That's the right thing to do. Bad karma to just let it happen, and pretend not to know whats going on.
2007-09-11 14:39:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your husband and see if it’s ok with him to let her know about her bf’s bahavior. Explain to your husband that you feel bad about it even if you don’t know her like that. Also, if they do get married, what good is it for your husband’s friend? You’re not ruining anything between if anything, you’re helping them. Put yourself in her shoes, would you be happy that someone told you about what's going on with ur husband when your not around or would you just rather guess.
2007-09-11 14:39:31 · answer #4 · answered by M@caroni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay out of it. After being confronted by other women that have slept with her boyfriend, she most likely knows about it. She may just need time to let it sink in.
2007-09-11 14:37:34 · answer #5 · answered by Alley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should let the girl know what is going on around her and ask her not to tell her BF that you told her about this stuff , but even if it ruins his relationship with your husband but still i think you should tell that girl because what he is doing is not right at all and he need to learn to respect other people
2007-09-11 14:35:21 · answer #6 · answered by Ann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it, if she's already had fights with some women then she knows whats going on.
Its just not up to you do anything about it.
2007-09-11 14:33:18 · answer #7 · answered by Catherine1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her. Nobody deserves to be treated as poorly as she is.
He needs to get his stuff together, and doesn't deserve such a faithful girlfriend, when he is so unfaithful.
2007-09-11 14:31:41 · answer #8 · answered by dannyrude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from this like it was plutonium.
This can only turn out badly for you.
2007-09-11 14:32:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might try minding your own business cause your man sure seems to be trying to distract your mind offin his. If your telescope ain't in your backyard, sugar, who knows what he's gettin away with?
2007-09-11 14:33:28 · answer #10 · answered by epiphanyhoney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋