2007-09-11 08:31:59 · 11 answers · asked by mimi ^____^ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I sure did, that is why he is now my ex-husband.
2007-09-11 08:39:11 · answer #1 · answered by Don Drapers woman 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well... I can't speak for sharing my thoughts with my HUSBAND, but I can sure speak about sharing them with my WIFE.....
I'll hold things back from time to time simply because what I'm thinking at the time just might not be the best thing to share and will hurt her feelings.
Sometimes people over react, but, there has to be a trust factor in each marriage that allows openness.
Maybe your husband isn't the warm and fuzzy type, I'm one of those type of guys. I'm very blunt, and at times, that can hurt some ones feelings even though it isn't my intent. So, I have to take a different approach to my comments and opinions.
Maybe you should discuss this more openly with him. I'm sure that he loves you and very well might not know that how he is hurts you when you try to open up to him. Another thing to consider.....what is it you're opening up about? Is it about him, or your relationship? Or possibly you're being misunderstood in the way you're doing it and he hears blah...blah...blah?
Try a new approach if that's the case.
2007-09-11 08:48:11 · answer #2 · answered by wentfishing2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 09:38:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful who you think to share your thoughts with.
Rather than focus on who to share them with, it seems you need to focus on repairing whatever breach there is that makes it hard to open up to him.
Without blame, it is both of you that share in responsibility to make it work.
Your focus should be on repairing your already damaged marriage into a welcome-mat for both to openly share every part of your life.
You may want to start with marital counseling.
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2007-09-11 08:43:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My X....it just got progressively worse...everything I said was wrong to him. I couldn't be open and honest about my feelings to the point that I stopped discussing my feelings. I denied my feelings and legitimate worries for so long that now I don't know how to deal with them myself or communicate with others.
2007-09-11 09:09:23 · answer #5 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it was the fact that I could share my thoughts with him and he continued to love me that made me want to spend my life with him.
2007-09-11 08:38:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sure. once in a while. there are just some things either better left unsaid or shared with a girlfriend. i don't see it as lying or hiding something.
2007-09-11 08:39:55 · answer #7 · answered by racer 51 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I just answered the "what would you change about your spouse" question with "sensitivity". He thinks everyone who talks about their problems is just looking for sympathy (except when he does, of course).
2007-09-11 08:38:18 · answer #8 · answered by Lady in Red 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes"There are things we just keep to ourselves..."
However if you can't share it with your spouse, you shouldn't share it with anyone else either...
2007-09-11 08:40:22 · answer #9 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I tell my husband everything, whether he is listening or not. =)
2007-09-11 08:40:52 · answer #10 · answered by mafiosu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋