well im 13 and well i have a younger brother that is 4..5 this month, and well im not being selfish or anything because i know he needs attention but sometimes it feels like im not even part of the family...and when he does something like hits me he starts crying so that my mum thinks i've did something to him and my mum doesnt let me explain..and before i know it im being sent to my room for nothing!...sometimes i cant wait to go to school because i know i can leave all the stress behind..i have a dad but he doesnt live with me and i got to see him on weekends but when i do see him i hardly speak about my mum because he hates her and my stepdad who lives with my mum and brother would probubly tell me to stop being spoiled..no one cares about me and im really sick of it
i dont see the point in saying anything really
so please help me!
its really getting me down..
thankyou x x x
2007-09-11 08:30:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I have a similar problem. The difference is my brother is now 18, and I'm 21. The thing is, he's the youngest....AND he's a boy. He's always going to be babied, and spoiled, and well...really...you're NOT really going to exist. The only thing my mom calls me for is to help her out with something. Never to hang out. I've always considered myself the "special one", and with that I mean, the most level headed. I just learned to deal with it. I've had to deal with it my entire life, and it's just something you need to accept. Knowing that you're the better person for just accepting it, is a great feeling. You can also talk to your mom...not YELL...about how all of this makes you feel...this might help too.
Good Luck!
2007-09-11 08:42:31 · answer #1 · answered by Shawnne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to keep your distance from your little brother and when your mother ask whytry to explain so that you do not get blamed for him doing that that he does. If your mother can not listen to your side then you have no choice than to try to stay aay from the younger brother. Be polite. If you have a arguement or raised voice telling mom then you might just of had one with your little brother too.
2007-09-11 08:44:22 · answer #2 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i know how you feel i have a bro that is younger than me like 15 yrs younger anyways... he does the same thing to me my mom always says i am jealous and I'm not!!!!! I just go on with my life as if I am a only child!!! Your mom loves you both = so let him do what he needs to in the long run you will be the one who is the winner
2007-09-11 08:39:36 · answer #3 · answered by giggles 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's really annoying when no one pays attention to what you want to say. The easiest solution that I can find is to talk to your dad and, if there is a chance, to go and live with him.
Good Luck!
2007-09-11 08:40:07 · answer #4 · answered by alLe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you have been chosen as the BLACK SHEEP! I would try to do the best I can in school, stay away from your siblings without your mom being in the room and move out as soon as you can!!
2007-09-11 08:39:47 · answer #5 · answered by Radtech1996 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋