One thing after another with ex. It is hard to know that he will get someone else and treat them better.
2007-09-11 08:48:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Forgive. You have to forgive him. So long as you hold bitterness and unforgiveness God cannot bless you nor can He fill the emptiness with joy. You also have to know that 'all things work together for good, to those who love the Lord and are the called, according to His purpose'. So if you are a believer, you trust that even this thing will make you stronger. You trust that God moved them out of your life..to make way for something better. You trust that He will deliver the person who will treat YOU better, and pray for your ex that he does become a better person. Bless your enemies as the BIble says...and God will bless you in return.
2007-09-11 09:01:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A wise man once wrote, "All men [and women] are created equal." There is no woman better than you. There are only women who are different from you. Odds are that if the two of you broke up, he is indeed looking for someone who fits what he wants more closely. But beauty is in the eye of the beholder; for every man who thinks your ex's new gf is better than you, there is a man who thinks that you are better than her. Your mission is to find one or more of the latter men!
2007-09-11 08:57:44 · answer #2 · answered by Happy-2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is true.. not matter how much u love someone...
the chance that they do not love u back the same way is possible..
therefore..
just because u love him with all your heart doesn't mean he feels the same way.. and he may meet someone.. and
go to the end of the earth for her..
and that is out of your control..
you have to go by a verse out of the Bible:
God help me to except the things I can not change.....!!!!!
you can not make him love you...
so when you except this.. and it may take years to do.. but by then you will not feel the same way about him
then you will be better.. and not bitter..
It is his lost.. not yours... take care...
2007-09-11 17:27:09 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Blondie ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you let go tahts how you stop being bitter just as he will find some one so will you. Theres nothing to bother you about how he lives his life thats his life you just live yours how you please and when the two paths cross take what he says with a grain of salt because hes an unhappy person to be causing so much drama or bs
2007-09-11 08:55:57 · answer #4 · answered by sarah W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Joyce Meyer has a teaching series called "Burnt but not Bitter"....I highly recommend it!
Bottom line - you have to change your focus. If you start thinking bitter, resentful thoughts, drive them out of your head and CHOOSE to focus on something positive.
2007-09-11 08:57:21 · answer #5 · answered by Romans 8:28 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't worry about him and his life any more. The best revenge and the best gift to yourself is to move forward, be happy and be successful! When you are happy and successful you won't care any more what he does or does not do.
In the end if he is a ugly, terrible person it will come back on him.
2007-09-11 09:17:27 · answer #6 · answered by wondermom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it matter if they treat some else better or not. You need to be better for you and, what life holds for you in the future....
2007-09-11 08:56:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, he's not goign to change. He'll treat her better for a little while, but in the end he's the same person.
2007-09-11 08:58:33 · answer #8 · answered by Leah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just don't worry too much about what other people may be doing right-
Focus on your concerns, strengths and dilemmas.
Be strong and focused on attaining positive progression.
That'll show em all!!!!
2007-09-11 09:00:21 · answer #9 · answered by James J Turner esq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he most certainly will not. Do not focus on him & what might have been- very destructive.
Focus on you, what makes you happy, what can you now do that you couldn't do when you were with him. It's time to boot him out of your life for good.
2007-09-11 09:05:04 · answer #10 · answered by T S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋