alright i went out with this girl and we dated for 2 months. a week ago she says she needs a break because her school started and its really stressful and she needs to get used to it and she isnt used to being in a relationship while in school. she said its only temporary. I asked her if she wanted her stuff back and she said no. we were texting one day and i needed to talk to her about a problem i was having and she said i crossed the line and i need to give the key back. so i said fine then give me back all of my stuff and ill give you all yours. i went up there this morning and returned the key and we talked about it and i asked her if she wanted to get back into this relationship again and she said well talk about it. when we left we hugged eachother and she gave me a kiss on the cheek i then kissed her. any thoughts on what i should do? what i should have done? any thoughts on how to get her back? serious answers only please.
2007-09-11 08:39:38 · 15 answers · asked by truespartan2005 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
did you elaborate to her on your problem? cuz if you didn't thats weird of her, i think she was just stressed about school. give it time.
2007-09-11 08:45:55 · answer #1 · answered by Adini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should def move on. 2months isnt that long to already have this much drama. basically she is trying to decide is she can have something better or not, sorry but it is the truth. dont call her, go out w/your friends, talk to other girls. U will find someone who knows that the want to be w/you and you will be so much happier. if this bs is happening now, it will happen again later down the road. not worth it.
2007-09-11 15:50:03 · answer #2 · answered by kt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She obviously is having her doubts. All you can do is let her know how you feel and that you are still willing to try to work things out, if she changes her mind. Other than that, you've got to give her the space and time to decide what she wants.
2007-09-11 15:45:13 · answer #3 · answered by wondermom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 to 6 months is still the honeymoon stage. Both of your feelings are still unsure. enjoy it and don't take it to seriously. If she is still around after 6 months than great. and if she isn't than that's OK to. at least you had a good time,
And remember always wear a sock..
Paytair101
2007-09-11 16:06:03 · answer #4 · answered by Paytair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry man some women are just ackword, just try to forget about this chic and move on. If she really cared about you as much as you cared about her then you got something going on. But the way she is acting id just slap tap it and jam.
2007-09-11 15:46:32 · answer #5 · answered by mover1799 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this girl is playing some weird games how did you cross the line by asking her a question??? bullshit let her go, move on
2007-09-11 15:46:33 · answer #6 · answered by da_chica_nikita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go and find a new girlfriend. life is to short to waste on a little tease and a game player like your ex. You deserve some one better.
2007-09-11 15:44:13 · answer #7 · answered by howie r 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her time. She might just be stressed from school.
2007-09-11 15:45:09 · answer #8 · answered by allstar080805 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy her something different, not flowers or candy or jewerly, something that requires thought, and investigation. I bought my girlfriend some soft sole moccasins, they are very populer now and i had to find out her shoe size. she loves them!!!!! get her moccasins---she will LOVE them!!!!!!!
2007-09-11 15:48:40 · answer #9 · answered by cool 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"she said we'll talk about it..."
That means " I'm moving on, If I don't find something better I'll be back"
Move on.. find something better...
2007-09-11 15:45:09 · answer #10 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋